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So you want to confront them?
Sometimes things in life happen that simply leave us baffled and let down. A lot of the time, this happens based on the actions of others in our absence.

If you are itching to confront someone, go in with the right mindset and let any anger you have run it's course so you don't lose it when you finally come to talk about it.

But, don't leave it too long.

Be mindful that we often behave impulsively, especially if we are not practicing self-awareness often. That's the majority.

And also, usually, people don't mean any harm. We act to protect ourselves, hide our insecurities, to maintain our image and keep our relationships positively charged. Sometimes, we hurt others without direct intention.

Confronting someone will usually put someone on the back foot so we don't want to go in strong, we simply want transparency and it's a good idea to create an environment of truth around us, to at the very least let other know our boundaries.

Looking for an apology is not a good enough reason. It's measuring the value in comforting someone in the first place.

Understand why it has disturbed your peace. If you can go in calm, in control and kind with zero expectation of a truthful apology, and the value in confronting is justified, the openness and do your relationships wonders.

It can also kill a relationship at the roots so if it's still worth pursuing, make sure you are clear on the end goal.

And remember, being kind to others, is being kind to yourself.


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