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Friend types #2
3) JUST A JOKE FRIENDS
these kind of friends are the worst for me personally, i never stick with such friends because they always hurt you with their words and claim that it was just a joke. this trait of these kinds of friends tends to overshadow their other good traits. They can make you the butt of a joke and later on tell you they were just joking, if you show any sign of hurt people will then start seeing you as a bitter and unforgiving person which just makes you feel more hurt. 😔😔 i seem to always attract these kinds of friends.
HANDLING
when they do it once, just get rid of them if it's possible, because they will just keep hurting you and claiming it was a joke.
4)RIDE AND DIE TOGETHER FRIENDS
these are the best kind of friends, they are always there, always supporting you, warning you about the dangers of whatever decision you want to take, and even if you make those bad decisions they will still be there to help you clean up the mess. Their loyalty is so great that you don't tend to overlook their flaws even if they have lots of it. The only people that fit this description in my life are my Mother and my sister, apart from them i have never had any genuine friends.
HANDLING
Love them the way they love you and always try to be there for them as well.
5)PANTS ON FIRE FRIENDS
😌😌 these kind of friends got their name from the saying 'liar liar pants on fire' because they are absolutely wonderful people (😐 note sarcasm).
They lie for a living, they just don't know how to tell the truth. It boils down to their low self esteem, they feel that they have to lie to you about having something or about doing something before you can respect them. By the time they realize that you just care about them for who they and not for what they have, the lying has already become a part of them. Lies are like a virus starting from a tiny portion till everywhere is covered. They might have started with only lying about their lifestyle but they will eventually start lying about every little thing. Apart from the lying though these kinds of friends are very loyal.
HANDLING
Always be down to earth, if you can help it don't flaunt your riches or what you have when they are around, especially if they don't have those things. Never let them be your only source of information always have another reliable friend where you can get reliable information from.
To be continued......
© AishaAbdulkarim
these kind of friends are the worst for me personally, i never stick with such friends because they always hurt you with their words and claim that it was just a joke. this trait of these kinds of friends tends to overshadow their other good traits. They can make you the butt of a joke and later on tell you they were just joking, if you show any sign of hurt people will then start seeing you as a bitter and unforgiving person which just makes you feel more hurt. 😔😔 i seem to always attract these kinds of friends.
HANDLING
when they do it once, just get rid of them if it's possible, because they will just keep hurting you and claiming it was a joke.
4)RIDE AND DIE TOGETHER FRIENDS
these are the best kind of friends, they are always there, always supporting you, warning you about the dangers of whatever decision you want to take, and even if you make those bad decisions they will still be there to help you clean up the mess. Their loyalty is so great that you don't tend to overlook their flaws even if they have lots of it. The only people that fit this description in my life are my Mother and my sister, apart from them i have never had any genuine friends.
HANDLING
Love them the way they love you and always try to be there for them as well.
5)PANTS ON FIRE FRIENDS
😌😌 these kind of friends got their name from the saying 'liar liar pants on fire' because they are absolutely wonderful people (😐 note sarcasm).
They lie for a living, they just don't know how to tell the truth. It boils down to their low self esteem, they feel that they have to lie to you about having something or about doing something before you can respect them. By the time they realize that you just care about them for who they and not for what they have, the lying has already become a part of them. Lies are like a virus starting from a tiny portion till everywhere is covered. They might have started with only lying about their lifestyle but they will eventually start lying about every little thing. Apart from the lying though these kinds of friends are very loyal.
HANDLING
Always be down to earth, if you can help it don't flaunt your riches or what you have when they are around, especially if they don't have those things. Never let them be your only source of information always have another reliable friend where you can get reliable information from.
To be continued......
© AishaAbdulkarim
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