Is it self destined that the boy who is YOUNGER in age will have all the faults? Don't gurdians have any role to teach or to discuss a problem with the young child? Are the gurdians are not actually humans but Gods?
I feel, like me every gurdian is a human. They have their pros and cons, they can do good or bad, they can be peaceful or angry, they can be perfect or faulty, they have flesh and blood too; because at the end of the day - every gurdian is a human to me.
Sorry! I can't give them the GOD tag.
A gurdian feels happy or sad, he/she can be sentimental, he/she can do errors; then why everytime society tries to find fault in the kids or teenagers! Most of the parents have NO UNDERSTANDING with their child. They just expect high to higher achievements from their child, spend lakhs of rupees on child, give much food & shelter to their child and used to think themselves as best "GURDIANS OF THE WORLD"!
Where as , the entire physical and career development depend on the PSYCHOLOGICAL STRENGTH of a particular child, that's why A POOR BOY ALSO CAN BECOME AN IAS (bcz success doesn't depend on parents' status). But when ? when Modern parents will understand this?
When apart from being extremely CAREFUL or CARELESS, they will become FRIENDS to their children!
Is that too tough? May be, because that's why even in the modern world, Teenage SUICIDE RATE has not decreased much.
After a teenage finds no way to share his/her feelings & no one to understand them rather than just BLAMING, they just find themselves ALONE in the world & try to LEAVE.
World is changing rapidly. My request to energy gurdian, Please! Give your little time & be friendly to your children, DON'T just be a mechanical ROBOT who just Serve the NEEDS.
Then may be, may be we all can create a better place for the future humanity.
© Mainak414