Even when we know that we did the right thing but still we need to forgive to have that peace ,that inner peace , forgive so you can be forgiven. Sometimes we get Deeply hurt to the point of promising ourselves that we can never forgive that person but do you know that lack of forgiveness steals your joy,happiness and you wont have peace of mind . Suffering yourself just because you dont want to forgive, no matter what we do people will always talk either good or bad but does their talk make you less of a person, the answer is NO. Whatever they may say against you or for you ,forgive so that you can grow in every area aspect of life
Dont wait to be asked to forgive before you forgive ,forgive even before the issue start, forgive when is getting into an argument or fight,forgive before the argument is over and forgive before u are asked to forgive, it will be lot more easier on you ,your health,your spiritual life and the relationship with people around you
It is not easy trust me but just forgive ,you are not forgiving because of anybody but you. Doing it for yourself to have that everlasting peace of mind and by healing yourself of the dirts inside you.FORGIVE because no matter what we do even before we do it OUR HEAVENLY FATHER HAS ALREADY FORGIVEN US.