A teen is a person between childhood and adulthood. This is the period during which young adults tend to undergo both physical and emotional changes which may affect their reasoning, decisions and lifestyle. Most of the teens learn about these changes on their own as parents or guardians shy away from engaging such topics especially to do with opposite gender. The teen either learns from friends, guidance and counseling, internet or out of their own experience. This teen years are most important in one's life as one tends to make most of the major decisions that may have effect in later life. Decisions on careers, relationships, friendships, personal development. With most teens lacking a guide to see them through this teen years, most tend to make err in their decisions which may cost them. This uninformed decisions are the mistakes they make knowingly or unknowingly.

First mistake made by girls is based on physical changes that occur in their bodies. During adolescence which is usually as early as nine years for girls, some girls develop as early as that whereas others take time which is perfectly okay. These changes include developing acne, enlargement of hips and breast, menstruation among others. Some girls tend to feel embarrassed about these changes as they get body shamed eg for having flat chest, acne all over their face, big boobs, big ass. This is mostly by opposite gender and some girls too which is not a good picture. Some girls due to this feel they lack, feel uncomfortable with their body shape, skin tone. These physical changes lead to the mistake of girls trying to strive to be like a certain model, comparing oneself to another girl which is not worth it. Girl you got to embrace yourself as you are, be comfortable the way you look. Everyone is fearfully and wonderfully made by God in His own likeness and image. Those that you look up to as being perfect, they got their own flaws and insecurities. Embrace your flaws and insecurities, do not let them pull you down. Focus on the positives and work on your flaws. By working on your flaws it does not mean you bleach or have a plastic surgery. Glow up girl. Go to that gym, do skin and hair routines, take more selfies, change your wardrobe to what suits you best according to body figure. Be comfortable in yoh self. You are your own version. If you live upto others expectations or others lives, who will live your life? Second mistake girls make is based on emotions. This is mostly on choosing friends. Who do you walk with, how do they impact your...