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Love Led Families | Breaking Generational Curses
Recently, I've been clearing out the remnants of the inner child wounds I've had to work on. As irrational as it sounds, the psychological effects inner child healing has on us, is astounding to say the least.
The era we were born in meant that many of us weren't raised in the most ideal situations and those traumas can often dictate our choices as adults. Example: kids with emotionally detached parents are most likely to attract partners who are emotionally unavailable. Kids with controlling father figures tend to sit in high masculinity even as females etc.
There are many scenarios that are clearly evident in adults and with a lack of awareness can travel from generation to generation.
We now have the knowledge to change things around and give our children better childhoods.
Previously, there was an imbalance of the masculine and feminine aspects in households which meant that some kids grew up thinking that some things are normal. Example: having a mother who works and a dad who doesn't contribute as much. Hyper-independence is a direct result of the aforementioned.
With all being said, it's so important to educate ourselves and get in touch with our parenting styles, knowing how to approach certain topics with the little human you are solely in charge of. I think one of the most covert issues that should not be done to new age kids is discussing parental issues about either parent with the child. Children are blameless and arrive in this world without the need of being their parents therapist or mediator.
I read something recently that really resonated with me, "Avoid gossip with your children, especially about family members or their actual parent. Deal with your issues personally without recruiting innocent children. One day you will be no more and the chain of bitterness, hatred and jealousy will continue from generation to generation. Break the chain".
How true are these words? What if children remained children? Their world should be built on innocence and playing, not taking on the problems of their parents. Wouldn't the awareness of these things allow love to lead families? It will certainly breed a generation of not only intelligent off spring but ones with high emotional intelligence who will birth healthy families and aid in future progression. Be aware and be the change.
© Memoirs of Maryannable's Mashables
The era we were born in meant that many of us weren't raised in the most ideal situations and those traumas can often dictate our choices as adults. Example: kids with emotionally detached parents are most likely to attract partners who are emotionally unavailable. Kids with controlling father figures tend to sit in high masculinity even as females etc.
There are many scenarios that are clearly evident in adults and with a lack of awareness can travel from generation to generation.
We now have the knowledge to change things around and give our children better childhoods.
Previously, there was an imbalance of the masculine and feminine aspects in households which meant that some kids grew up thinking that some things are normal. Example: having a mother who works and a dad who doesn't contribute as much. Hyper-independence is a direct result of the aforementioned.
With all being said, it's so important to educate ourselves and get in touch with our parenting styles, knowing how to approach certain topics with the little human you are solely in charge of. I think one of the most covert issues that should not be done to new age kids is discussing parental issues about either parent with the child. Children are blameless and arrive in this world without the need of being their parents therapist or mediator.
I read something recently that really resonated with me, "Avoid gossip with your children, especially about family members or their actual parent. Deal with your issues personally without recruiting innocent children. One day you will be no more and the chain of bitterness, hatred and jealousy will continue from generation to generation. Break the chain".
How true are these words? What if children remained children? Their world should be built on innocence and playing, not taking on the problems of their parents. Wouldn't the awareness of these things allow love to lead families? It will certainly breed a generation of not only intelligent off spring but ones with high emotional intelligence who will birth healthy families and aid in future progression. Be aware and be the change.
© Memoirs of Maryannable's Mashables
