" when I judge a man for marriage , I mentally take away his looks , his money , his cars and everything materialistic and then ask myself what he really has to offer . is he honest ? loyal ? caring and kind ? loving and trustworthy ? because let me tell you , while his good looks and money will make you weak in the knees now , at 3am when your child is crying to be fed . and your eyes are heavy and your body is weak from postpartum , it will not be how he looks or all that he owns that will matter . it will be the compassion in his heart , the mercy in his nature and the love for you in his soul that will push him out of bed to quickly feed the child and tell you " Don' t worry honey , I got this . " that's what I really envision long-term . little moments like these that differentiates an ordinary man from an extraordinary husband and father . and that is all I need ."


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