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Cheats and Regrets
Those who cheats are immature.
They haven't fully grown their brains. They can't tame their emotions. They find excuses in hurting others. And worst, they destroy themselves.
I know alot of people who cheat based on various reasons. Let say, they don't love their partners anymore for petty reasons. They don't seem happy anymore with the relationship they built for years. They've got massive trust issues. Or simply just because they can't find contentment in a two-way road so they always want to find an extravagant exit.
I usually say this to my lovers, "If you're tired with our relationship, just leave. Don't cheat." Why? Because cheating ruins everything. Regardless of how bad your relationship turned into, remember that you still have good memories together. Don't throw that away. Don't destroy that experience. But I guess, only few can realize it.
They say " Once a cheater, will always be a cheater". I say NO. People change too. Not just seasons and emotions. I was once a cheater but not anymore. Why? Because I learn to value myself. I learn to value respect. I learn to value emotions. I learn to value relations.
If you cheat, imagine the destruction you are bringing to yourself. Let's not even talk about the other person involved. Let's just talk about you. If you cheat, you will be happy at first. But then when all those superficials feelings for your new apple of the eye subside, you'll begin to realize what you've done. You'll start to feel that painful regret. You'll try to make amends with the person you left behind. But it is just few cases where the one you broke will accept you. You'll try to clean yourself. You'll promise paradise and sunshine and butterflies again. You'll try to win the feelings back. But you know they say that damage has been done and there is no way that you can repair it. You'll have to live with the fact that your actions are always numbered. That your intentions will always going to be questioned. That you will walk on eggshells and that you will always be careful not to create another crack in that relationship.And that's hard. But you brought that to yourself and you can never complain about any of that.
Now, do you understand?
© silvervierre
They haven't fully grown their brains. They can't tame their emotions. They find excuses in hurting others. And worst, they destroy themselves.
I know alot of people who cheat based on various reasons. Let say, they don't love their partners anymore for petty reasons. They don't seem happy anymore with the relationship they built for years. They've got massive trust issues. Or simply just because they can't find contentment in a two-way road so they always want to find an extravagant exit.
I usually say this to my lovers, "If you're tired with our relationship, just leave. Don't cheat." Why? Because cheating ruins everything. Regardless of how bad your relationship turned into, remember that you still have good memories together. Don't throw that away. Don't destroy that experience. But I guess, only few can realize it.
They say " Once a cheater, will always be a cheater". I say NO. People change too. Not just seasons and emotions. I was once a cheater but not anymore. Why? Because I learn to value myself. I learn to value respect. I learn to value emotions. I learn to value relations.
If you cheat, imagine the destruction you are bringing to yourself. Let's not even talk about the other person involved. Let's just talk about you. If you cheat, you will be happy at first. But then when all those superficials feelings for your new apple of the eye subside, you'll begin to realize what you've done. You'll start to feel that painful regret. You'll try to make amends with the person you left behind. But it is just few cases where the one you broke will accept you. You'll try to clean yourself. You'll promise paradise and sunshine and butterflies again. You'll try to win the feelings back. But you know they say that damage has been done and there is no way that you can repair it. You'll have to live with the fact that your actions are always numbered. That your intentions will always going to be questioned. That you will walk on eggshells and that you will always be careful not to create another crack in that relationship.And that's hard. But you brought that to yourself and you can never complain about any of that.
Now, do you understand?
© silvervierre
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