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If a girl is jealous of me does she love me?
While jealousy is a proof of True love, it could still not be, reason being that a girl might be jealous of you but still don't love you.

She might just be jealous of you because she doesn't want you sharing your attention (as her bestie) with other girls.

This holds to be true as there's this issue of jealousy and proving pointless points especially with the ladies.

So a lady might not be interested in a guy but (on the grounds of ordinary friendship) might just not want him to be friends with other ladies out there not because she loves him but because she wants that friendly tie between them to end with just her.

They (ladies) just want it all (attention) and hate sharing it with other ladies due to the high degree of jealousy that coexists among them.

Now there's two alternatives to this: One, she might be jealous of seeing you around other ladies and (like we've seen) have no deep affection beyond friendship towards you.

Alternatively, she might be jealous of seeing you around other ladies plus have (what I call) a "growing crush" on you she's yet to fully comprehend and as such opt to keep it on a friendship basis until those feelings are confirmed.

At this point, duty calls greatly on you (the guy) to turn ON your signal and begin a detailed observation of her every move around you so as to determine what exactly lurks behind her jealousy: If it's True love or mere friendship.

I'll safe you the stress though. Below are things you should expect if what's behind her jealousy is True Love:

She will always want to be around you. She will always want to talk to you. Her mood will change whenever she sees you with another girl (just like we saw above).

For most (ladies), they definitely will never open up and tell you they love you because that's their pride as a lady. Instead, they'll deliberately create scenarios and signals that should pass a message of affection to you and hope you're sensitive enough to grasp the signal, interpret it and respond to it!

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