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_Stranger's Talks!
I Myself have no idea since how long I wanted to write this.
But yeah, m happy today m taking the initiative.
This can be a never-ending story or always extending.
Okay... So, I'll start...
I often ask many people what perception do you have about the people you met?
(Consider here strangers, also people you are knowing since years)
Answers were ambiguous, people themselves were never sure what they're saying, if they really mean it or not.
Some call Strangers kind, some known people are enemy to them... Basically their family members, for some everyone is Fraud... Funny though!
To me answer resulted in 360° complete change from the prior opinion of somebody else.
btw their opinions never affected mine!
Today while reading one of my subject books
I.e., Corporate Communication and Public Relations, Chapter was about Technology in Corporate Communication -
Where I read a line 'What convinces you to approach people in the real world, and on social media.'
Well, the line makes lotta sense to me.
As humans we all are eligible to observe, perceive and make judgements, logically it's 'Comparison' what we do.
Face, Dressing Style, Physicality, Manner of speaking... And so on. How the person is in real is the ultimate quest.
I'm not saying any 'Dark Reality' m stating a fact and there is nothing wrong about it.
Once in communication on a zoom call with my friend, Lex... (A Russian) ... Over the same topic ... Where I said, "People are extremely judgmental about face" To which he answered, "It's majorly because that's the first thing you notice about the stranger, even a whole life isn't enough to know someone in person."
Agreeable?? Yes!
As an Indian many of us wrongly believe that people living in America are open to Sex, they have such culture of showing cleavage and all...
In India it's more than rare and unacceptable to be in front of parents, or someone elder than us... In exposed clothes.
Let's say miniskirts, At beaches in Bikini's.
Where people are eyeing, what people are perceiving that's never going to be an issue, but The Clothes, the girl is wearing.
During a chat with my friend, Zenzi Grace (From USA)
I shared with him a pic of a Cat (I recently clicked and posted here as well)
He's a cat lover, He's having 3 cats... All are super cute.
Below the pic I wrote a text -
(Copying the actual texts below)
Me – yestreen I visited a park... So found this cat... She was observing humans... More like a spy passing info to aliens 👨🚀
but the moment she started ignoring me... I just loved that... I made multiple videos... Which are pretty sexy...
Zen - Uh........... I think that is maybe not the right way to use that word sir.
Me - Which word?
Zen - Sexy
Zen - Unless you mean it like that in which case our friendship immediately is void and it should be illegal for you to ever be within or even see another animal in your life again.
Me - That's too strict ☠
Me - I meant it as a compliment...
Zen - Bruh, you do realize sexy means sexually attractive right? As in you are saying you want to have sex with the cat....
Me - ☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠
Me - Helll Noooooooo
Me - The topic is debatable.. The cat is adorably cute..
Many a times we see models getting compliments.. Like 'hey, you're looking very sexy' that doesn't mean the person giving compliment wants to have sex ☠
Me - Well I'm sorry if you disliked the text .. But i really would never mean that.. For anybody.. I use that word just as a mere compliment.. And that's it.
Beautiful, pretty, cute sounds very average to me...
Me - Bruh m seriously waiting for your reply 🐘
Zen - Oh, sorry, I fell asleep
Zen - Tbf it was 3am here
Zen - Yeah, no I'm pretty sure people actually mean that....
(Swiped my.. "The topic is debatable text....")
Zen - At least in the US
Zen - Could be considered sexual harassment here if you call someone sexy and you are not like, close to them
If you say that to a child you are in huggee trouble.
Zen - 'Cause people will think you're a pedo 😅
(After this it was a casual chat)
The above recent texts from Zen, Surprised me to the core.
At that moment I felt happy, Having Zen as a friend. The correct choice of words is extremely important, is what I realized.
Speaking of global news or facts, 60% of Pornography contents are hosted in the US.
The United States has a rape rate of 27.3.
According to World Population Review data, only 9% of rapists in the US get prosecuted, and only 3% of rapists will spend a day in prison, while 97% of rapists in the United States will walk...
But yeah, m happy today m taking the initiative.
This can be a never-ending story or always extending.
Okay... So, I'll start...
I often ask many people what perception do you have about the people you met?
(Consider here strangers, also people you are knowing since years)
Answers were ambiguous, people themselves were never sure what they're saying, if they really mean it or not.
Some call Strangers kind, some known people are enemy to them... Basically their family members, for some everyone is Fraud... Funny though!
To me answer resulted in 360° complete change from the prior opinion of somebody else.
btw their opinions never affected mine!
Today while reading one of my subject books
I.e., Corporate Communication and Public Relations, Chapter was about Technology in Corporate Communication -
Where I read a line 'What convinces you to approach people in the real world, and on social media.'
Well, the line makes lotta sense to me.
As humans we all are eligible to observe, perceive and make judgements, logically it's 'Comparison' what we do.
Face, Dressing Style, Physicality, Manner of speaking... And so on. How the person is in real is the ultimate quest.
I'm not saying any 'Dark Reality' m stating a fact and there is nothing wrong about it.
Once in communication on a zoom call with my friend, Lex... (A Russian) ... Over the same topic ... Where I said, "People are extremely judgmental about face" To which he answered, "It's majorly because that's the first thing you notice about the stranger, even a whole life isn't enough to know someone in person."
Agreeable?? Yes!
As an Indian many of us wrongly believe that people living in America are open to Sex, they have such culture of showing cleavage and all...
In India it's more than rare and unacceptable to be in front of parents, or someone elder than us... In exposed clothes.
Let's say miniskirts, At beaches in Bikini's.
Where people are eyeing, what people are perceiving that's never going to be an issue, but The Clothes, the girl is wearing.
During a chat with my friend, Zenzi Grace (From USA)
I shared with him a pic of a Cat (I recently clicked and posted here as well)
He's a cat lover, He's having 3 cats... All are super cute.
Below the pic I wrote a text -
(Copying the actual texts below)
Me – yestreen I visited a park... So found this cat... She was observing humans... More like a spy passing info to aliens 👨🚀
but the moment she started ignoring me... I just loved that... I made multiple videos... Which are pretty sexy...
Zen - Uh........... I think that is maybe not the right way to use that word sir.
Me - Which word?
Zen - Sexy
Zen - Unless you mean it like that in which case our friendship immediately is void and it should be illegal for you to ever be within or even see another animal in your life again.
Me - That's too strict ☠
Me - I meant it as a compliment...
Zen - Bruh, you do realize sexy means sexually attractive right? As in you are saying you want to have sex with the cat....
Me - ☠☠☠☠☠☠☠☠
Me - Helll Noooooooo
Me - The topic is debatable.. The cat is adorably cute..
Many a times we see models getting compliments.. Like 'hey, you're looking very sexy' that doesn't mean the person giving compliment wants to have sex ☠
Me - Well I'm sorry if you disliked the text .. But i really would never mean that.. For anybody.. I use that word just as a mere compliment.. And that's it.
Beautiful, pretty, cute sounds very average to me...
Me - Bruh m seriously waiting for your reply 🐘
Zen - Oh, sorry, I fell asleep
Zen - Tbf it was 3am here
Zen - Yeah, no I'm pretty sure people actually mean that....
(Swiped my.. "The topic is debatable text....")
Zen - At least in the US
Zen - Could be considered sexual harassment here if you call someone sexy and you are not like, close to them
If you say that to a child you are in huggee trouble.
Zen - 'Cause people will think you're a pedo 😅
(After this it was a casual chat)
The above recent texts from Zen, Surprised me to the core.
At that moment I felt happy, Having Zen as a friend. The correct choice of words is extremely important, is what I realized.
Speaking of global news or facts, 60% of Pornography contents are hosted in the US.
The United States has a rape rate of 27.3.
According to World Population Review data, only 9% of rapists in the US get prosecuted, and only 3% of rapists will spend a day in prison, while 97% of rapists in the United States will walk...
