Parenting
Its a two peoples job..
when you plan to have babies in your life..
make sure to act responsibly for the child when it's born..
Its the duty of both the mother and the father to take care & shower love on the baby equally..

If the father shows concern only regarding income, status and welfare of the house & put all the responsibility concerning baby on the mother itself, he is the worst father to have.

If the mother shows interest only in gossiping, daily soap, criticizing others & put all the responsibility aside concerning to the baby on his father itself, she is the worst mother to have.

But if both, mother & father team up and do everything concerning to the baby equally, then the baby is blessed with best parents that he/she can have..

I've so far seen father who've plenty of time to spend with his baby, chooses to avoid it just to get engaged in discussing nonsensical worldly affairs with his friends..

Whereas the mother I've seen.. seemed so caught up in their brain, so involved in chatting which made them forget that they have a baby..

Many of today's parent are blaming each other for imperfections/lack of qualities/dissatisfaction/disappointment for having the child..

But in reality they both are at the blame who failed to properly parent their child..

Parents are so caught in this worldly affairs that they become victims of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out)..
Just because someone's child is doing great in some field..
Typical parents forces their child to do the same.. Ignoring the fact of his/her wish & if she/he wants to do it or not..
Just because of this, the child ends up fail in this game which he/she never really wanted to sign for..
Hence, making them to take steep steps of ending up his/her life rather than trying to fill the space which he/she never really ask for..

Why can't today's parent do this simple thing..
Asking whether the child wants to do it or not..
Supporting in what the child really want to do..
Helping the child achieve the goals that he/she have set for themselves..
Believing in their child's dream..

Even if only one point from the above parents wished to understand..
Then they'll surely be proud of the child they have..


© Vishal Ghadge