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Sorry, you are not my everything.
Sorry you are not my everything
There's a song called "Your Everything to Me" by Monica. It says:
"I couldn't breathe without you. I wouldn't know what to do if you were gone. I wouldn't be able to breathe. You're my everything. You're the reason my sun shines. You are the air that I breathe, I need you to live.
I need you to breathe. "
I remember listening to that song, and I realized that as much as one day, I would love to find my true love. I never want to feel like this, ever! Yes, I want to love someone, but I never want to make them so important that without them, I am dead. That they are my sun and my air. No, I gave that kind of power away once, and it almost cost me my life.
No, when I fall in love again, and yes, I still have faith that God will bring me someone.
I will know without a shadow of a doubt who provides my sun and my air. I know that if everyone should up and leave my life, I know I will still be okay because I know where my true source of happiness comes from.
You can not expect another person to fulfill your every need. You first must love yourself. You must be happy within. You must have peace and forgiveness in your heart. You must be one with God and the universe, or whoever you believe in. You must know your inner voice and be able to listen to it.
You must first have a fulfilled life on your own. You must be okay with being by yourself. You need to know your own worth and be by yourself for a while. I took a year off from dating. I needed to be okay being by myself. Only when you know your worth is it then that if someone comes into your life, they are not making your life "whole"
They are just enhancing it.
There are so many people out there who say, "When I get the perfect job, I will do this, or when I lose fifty pounds, my life will be good. One day, when I get that promotion, it will be then...
Or my favorite is, “when I meet my person”
Or everyones go to,
Monday, I will start....."
You are keeping your life on hold waiting for someone or waiting for something better. People!! Wake up, your life is now! And it's passing you by.
Be happy for where you are at this moment. Be grateful, be fulfilled, and know that you already possess these things. You are whole. You are your own everything. Know that God is your everything (or your higher power). Anything else that comes along is gravy, that's all.
One person can not be everything to you. One person can not fulfill your every need. It's unrealistic, and maybe that is why you go from relationship to relationship. You keep seeking someone to fill these needs, a father figure, a mother who always disapproved, never feeling loved. So you keep seeking to fill that hurt and void in your life.
You need to acknowledge the problem and the patterns in your life. Then you need to fix them. You need to learn that you are good enough. That you are whole, and know that you are loved. When you get to that place of being whole and at peace with you and your life, it is then that if you find someone, it will make that much sweeter.
So today, my friends, don't look to others or things to make your life "whole" look inside yourself and know God or the universe made you perfect just the way you are. No extra ingredients are needed.
“Be the change you want to see”
@TreadmillTreats
© TreadmillTreats
There's a song called "Your Everything to Me" by Monica. It says:
"I couldn't breathe without you. I wouldn't know what to do if you were gone. I wouldn't be able to breathe. You're my everything. You're the reason my sun shines. You are the air that I breathe, I need you to live.
I need you to breathe. "
I remember listening to that song, and I realized that as much as one day, I would love to find my true love. I never want to feel like this, ever! Yes, I want to love someone, but I never want to make them so important that without them, I am dead. That they are my sun and my air. No, I gave that kind of power away once, and it almost cost me my life.
No, when I fall in love again, and yes, I still have faith that God will bring me someone.
I will know without a shadow of a doubt who provides my sun and my air. I know that if everyone should up and leave my life, I know I will still be okay because I know where my true source of happiness comes from.
You can not expect another person to fulfill your every need. You first must love yourself. You must be happy within. You must have peace and forgiveness in your heart. You must be one with God and the universe, or whoever you believe in. You must know your inner voice and be able to listen to it.
You must first have a fulfilled life on your own. You must be okay with being by yourself. You need to know your own worth and be by yourself for a while. I took a year off from dating. I needed to be okay being by myself. Only when you know your worth is it then that if someone comes into your life, they are not making your life "whole"
They are just enhancing it.
There are so many people out there who say, "When I get the perfect job, I will do this, or when I lose fifty pounds, my life will be good. One day, when I get that promotion, it will be then...
Or my favorite is, “when I meet my person”
Or everyones go to,
Monday, I will start....."
You are keeping your life on hold waiting for someone or waiting for something better. People!! Wake up, your life is now! And it's passing you by.
Be happy for where you are at this moment. Be grateful, be fulfilled, and know that you already possess these things. You are whole. You are your own everything. Know that God is your everything (or your higher power). Anything else that comes along is gravy, that's all.
One person can not be everything to you. One person can not fulfill your every need. It's unrealistic, and maybe that is why you go from relationship to relationship. You keep seeking someone to fill these needs, a father figure, a mother who always disapproved, never feeling loved. So you keep seeking to fill that hurt and void in your life.
You need to acknowledge the problem and the patterns in your life. Then you need to fix them. You need to learn that you are good enough. That you are whole, and know that you are loved. When you get to that place of being whole and at peace with you and your life, it is then that if you find someone, it will make that much sweeter.
So today, my friends, don't look to others or things to make your life "whole" look inside yourself and know God or the universe made you perfect just the way you are. No extra ingredients are needed.
“Be the change you want to see”
@TreadmillTreats
© TreadmillTreats
