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Love, die, Live ( A should be Lifetime Story part1)
My childhoood is a boring norm yaers of my life. May some kinda follow rules and strict to the book theme.
Was born March 1979, yeah Im in my 40's, you got a problem on that(just kidding). Not complaining my life is a bit of a roller coaster of everything.
I went to school though but I never got a major degree,Only Technical course in Hotel and Restaurant Management.
School years is a bit odd for me I dont really get rto much attached with my classmates during my elementary and high school years only got few friends and its fine with me, though when it comes to exam week everybody loves you, everyone knows your name. The best part is the treat is flowing in different places, for what for cheat codes. Im no genieus but I do study hard..well that's how secondary level schooling goes, just to have the thrill of getting caught and passing.Thank God wasn't caught.(LOL).
As I recall I dont have a lovelife in my teen years...🤔 😱 oh wait! I did have two, the first is this 26 yera old guy, thou can't recall a face but I can still remember his face.
I was 13 my first year in highscool when we met to be honest his a getleman and and a serious guy, but the timing isnt right. Our love story lasted for a year, its lesson for the both of us.
That we shouldnt rush Love.
Im still a kid that time and he asked me to marry him.That bring an alarm to my mother and told me to stay away from him. Cause he was my school service and I was starting to fall for him. And my mother come to notice it, everytime he ask me to meet up outside with our maid so my mother wont notice she think we're just putting the trash out. Until we got caught.
He was really a gentleman a fine lad. He never showed me disresoect and never even attempted to take advantage on me, htough he is a bit jealous when some guy us talking to me but he never made a fight,he calmly tell me what he feels. I decided to stay away from him, cause it wasn't right the time for us. Well i know his in a good disposition now and Im happy for him.
The second guy was for a week and I dont really love him. It was during my 4th year in high school. You know why I broke up with him!? He kissed me inside the cab and I was'nt ready him that kissed,his Donny and he was trully mad at me eversince everytime our path crossed he always show me that grimm face. And I dont care, I smiled at him in return, though felt sorry in breaking his heart wasn't ready for LOVE that time,
My Technical Years is great! cause of my course I got to travel and be free. There I started to build my dreams. I really want to travel and know the world.an dalso this is the years I came to awareness of men,I guess they do exist too in some sort.
I started welcoming them when I'm 24years old, wow!late bloomer. LOL! I may say dated a few but no one got so close, I wont pretend I'm a mixed of a wild tamed Goddess who cuts off men when I'm aboit to fall inlove.. I hate being boxed or cornered or even be pampered with fancy stuffs.
"Honey... material things dont excite me". I want more than mens wallet can give, but wit conviction. I always seek for a spiritual love, the unconditional one.
The reason that I dont stay in a relationship, cause
" I always want to feel HOME...", but where is home!?
until I met my future husband.
You know what!? my husband and me have a weird lovestory. Do you want me to tell you, well you have no choice cause This is my life so I'll tell you any way.
It begun on my birthday March 1998, I'm 23 was inthe church that day and I asked GOD a wished, to take away my pain and send me the man I would spend the rest of my lifetime with, I asked him a specific features of my dream guy, A tall dark and handsome guy that will share his love with me. I dont go for richness, all I want is to be happy. then years pass to be exact 2 years.
I'm 25 taking up Computer Technology in an institution here in the Philippines. I met him my Dream Guy, a tall dark and handsome guy with full of charisma.
He was my classmate, but unfortunately we're both in a relationship. By the way his name is Vhal, Percival. everyone likes him, cause his in the varsity, who wouldnt fall with that. but not me and my friend does really drop dead inlove with him. Uh huh! I dont like player!
I can remember when but my friend whom I call KULOT(curly) annoyed me one day begging me to ask Vhal's number, well being a good friend I did. Since Vhal always sits behind me so he could annoy me by pulling my hair and smeling me the whole semester.
So i ploted a revenge (hahahha) I asked his number sweetly and he excitedly gave me, inputing on my mobile phone. After asking his number I started ignoring him, even as we cross our paths in school corridors and him kept bugging me during class, I totally snub him. That truly made him confused on my actions towards him cause in his mind I was the one messaging him... In his dream I said to myself...
Week passes by, then one Monday after our Math class ended, as I was on my way out down the stairs way (by the way our classroom is on the second floor)
Vhal pulled me roughly on the corner end of the building entrance, I could still recall how deep his eyes stared at me with complete disappointment while I'm looking at him with an innocent questioning eyes.
He asked:
"I thought you're the one I'm exchanging messsage with, why you played me?"
I answered:
"What!? Yes, I did asked for your number but I never said I'd be the one to message you!"
" Kulot, beg me to ask for your number so I did asked you, it was just a favor." giving him a brow raise.
That is the first time I saw Vhal's face irritated and his grip on my wrist turn a bit tighter and i started pulling it so he would let go but he never inteded to.
So I just started to question him,
Me:
" Why are you upset?"
Vhal:
" She asked me to meet her, on a date."
Me:
"Thats good so, What happened by the way?"
Vhal:
" I was dissappointed, she asked me to go in her place." in an upset toned
I just smiled in a she devil way. And he stopping himself to smile back.
Vhal:
" You owe me this one, so you need to pay back!" in a deep demanding tone.
Me:
" Pay! What?!Seriously!?" annoyingly answered him.
I was surprised on his next actions.. He grab my bag and took out my phone and started jotting his number and ring up his phone then returned it to me.
Vhal:
" Starting tomorrow I expect a messsage from you, and don't ever try deleting my number." gave me a wink a proudly leave.. I haven'teven got a chance to react back him leaving me froze while our collegues looking at me with a grin faced. The only thing I can do is to dash away and go home.
to be continued......
© AyshiaCg