Have you ever played a 'good child' role ? why did someone play that role ? because of their desire for appreciation or may be they wanted something more in return and this role was a bargain chip for them, bargain for more freedom.

The role of rebellious and rule breaker mostly played by boy child. Most girl child play less rebellious and more good child role. Have you ever seen those girls ? Being perfect, being obedient, being in boundaries. But what for and why ? Some for appreciation and acceptance. Though there are some to bargain for more freedom, more permits. Permission to get the right to choose. Permission for higher education. Permission to make friends, Permission to push the boundaries, Permission to chase the dreams, Permission to speak more and speak own soul langugae.

They keep playing 'good child' role with the hope that they are earning and building a trusting relation between family and them. And on that trust, one day, they will be allowed to...