Relationships are meant to be personal, very private, you need not disclose every detail of it to everyone or someone whom you trust.
Never seek relationship advice because it's your chemistry, your life, no matter what position this third-person holds in your life, for him/her your relationship is not what you experience, what you feel. Their assumptions, even their agenda with the person you are in a relationship with count. They have their version of them in their minds, Maybe the person you are in a relationship with doesn't share that bond with them or maybe they have some terrible experience but that doesn't mean that the person is bad. Indeed your third person is your good wisher but oversharing and assumptions can ruin any relationship. Seek advice sometimes but believe in your vibes, what you feel, believe, and what you experience. None can change your situation, it's only you who is the saviour of your relationship. Unless something is said, don't assume by yourself. Assumptions are deadly for any relationship. Friendships and relationships should be kept in balance in parallel.

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