i am depressed and Troubled Though i got to smiled and forget the worries in my heart.i sat down trying to Understand Why is it that to find a Good wife is like a gold in the deepest part of the ocean.i want to know Why is it that a man could be surrended by different types of ladies and still can't see one as He's qualified partner for life.i am trying Very hard to Understand the reason for a guy to find a Lady that like him the way he looked in the heart not minding werther He's Handsome nor talks alot and accept him/and i also seen it like diamonds in the dead forest surrended with monsters like red Dragons,and mighty black tigers and red snakes with seven heads and with wings.i Chinedu Nkwoka laughing myself like AY making people laughing and i needed to Understands this cause since 2015 i Haven't find a Lady that will like me just for me and not Because of What she Heard from me or What she observed about Chinedu Nkwoka.the worst thing that could happened to a man is to married someone that is not he's wife.i am Still laughing to Please myself and Edwin told me my guy heart of gold Obiolaedo take am Easy so you won't walk on shits cause you deserved the best and i Wish you all the best daily.i am Still not Happy Though Edwin is right,bet sometimes i don't know How to catch fishes with hands.i am Still worried my friend Soso bar man Who is in Canada told me,the matter is too much and he Wish he got answers I'm looking for.i wanted to know If BC kenneth my childhood friend got answers Why is it ladies surrended a man and he Still finding it hard to find a Good wife,and he told me It's something Necessary,that i should take it easy,and opened my eyes well so that God will bless me with a Good wife with heart of Silver or gold.i am not satisfied then i asked my guy jieky Basket of money in nsuka and he told me that it is Necessary before a man married a girl,he should do his home work well.he should get to know her first cause marriage is not a game of children.he told me of course those guys or young men that thinks every Lady around them is gonna be wife material and married her,are now weeping bitterly and They're even Calling such woman a witch.he told me heart of gold take it Easy and you will find a Good wife that Once she entered into your life and every other blessings will be increased Immediately.i am Still laughing and me Edu is yet to get all the answers i needed and i now knocked on honest educated elders of Traditional and cultural African men door.the men that love African Cultures much and they told me son welcome to a house of the ancients and a house filled with all the answers about marriages both falling of black man marriages and rising up a black man marriages.i am telling you son Chinedu.i know your not getting younger.i Understand you had a dream Which you have not achieved and sometimes you looked at the mirror and Wish your Still eighteen years again.i am glad you came to us and you will go back smiling.i want you to Remember this my son,don't ever promised a Lady you will marry her cause even Though you are looking for a wife and praying to God ALMIGHT for a Good wife,be careful cause Women hearts are Harder than the men.i also want you to release your worries about Why It's hard to find a Good wife.if It's Easy to find a Good wife,then It's Easy to be a human being.the main reason Original African man or a man that wants to have a woman,he will grow old with,is the same reason is important for you to Understands this Lady you claimed to like or love cause marriage is like a spirit Which we can't see.i am Very Sure my son you wouldn't want to marry a Lady Who will bring bad luck to you,a Lady Who will only cares somuch about her siblings and her relatives,but disliked your own people,even when They're friendly and kindly to her.i also believed you will not want to marry a Lady that Once she gave birth to a male child she will turned into hunter of anyone related to you will irritates her.the beauty of every woman Remained Good character and It's can never be changed Nomatter How Youths do their best to changed it.if anyone that met a Lady and proposed Which is not African Culture and Later the Lady brings out her Original character,i think the young man should be blamed.my son It's Necessary a man take time to check a woman he wants to marry carefully If he wants to live longer or have a peaceful homes.the Youths this days are funny my son,Cause money can't change a bad character Lady or woman,Yes the young man Maybe Using money to calm her down,but someday Once there is trouble around the Corner she will vanished.this is How it will Always be Chinedu.i know How Troubled you are in your heart,but It's hard to find a Good wife and It's hard to find a woman with pure heart or heart of gold like you and you are heart of gold and your friends and siblings seen it too,so If you want to find a Good wife Which i see you in months to come with a Good wife and a Good wife that will make you feels heaven on earth.i also Wanna put this straight to you son,Yes the most Complicated issues a man or woman could Puts himself into is to married a bad wife.i know you wondered Why African men dying younger these days and leaving their wife with kids.we the old people still living with our wives today is Because,we never married our wives cause they have big ass just like Youths this days are in love with young ladies backside than her characters and we didn't married our wives cause they got big Breasts,rather we married them cause we liked Each other personalities and we married her not Because She's tall or she has hairs bodies,but we liked Each other not minding things of vanity,cause son Breasts will old someday and face will old someday,but likeness and love a male and female has for Each other Remained Forever.If you don't want to Marry wrong Lady Which as an elder and Traditional man,i pray That God will give you a Good wife and God will Use her to bring you all the Blessings(Iseeeee Amen)my son don't Puts much of your attention on a Lady Appearance,rather pays attention on her character and If she has Good character you will findout as time goes by as your spending time with her on daily basis and Remember If she has 50 percent accept her as your wife cause 100 Minus 50 is not bad.i Hope you have known the reason It's not Easy to find a Good wife and my son don't be deceived cause many people are laughing like you,but Actually they Wish they can turn back the clock and Corrects their mistakes in marriage.i also want you to know that Age is number and you are blessed to have a Good babyface and active body.i am 80 years but i looked like 110 years old person.i am Happy for you making out time to Seek the elders and don't rush into marriage,rather take it Easy and Sooner God will give you a wife even more heart of gold than you.i also want you to start laughing properly after you left here cause by you coming here also gives other young men begging a Lady to marry them the reason to Understand the mistakes They're about to make cause,If Someone don't like you and she married you,i feels Sorry for you.my son you also asked me Why many superstars had Failed marriages is it caused by not checking themselves before married?i must tell you my Son many superstars that doesn't have something in common If they married they will definitely break up,i know cheating comes between them often,i bet they don't really know much about Each other before they married and sometimes a superstar married someone that is not famous and still have peaceful marriage.i must tell you this my son,Remember don't always over talking without giving a Lady chance to speak and Always do as possible to give her chance to contribute her own opinion and many marriages broken Because some men could be the one in charge of ordering and controlling the woman without giving her a chance to show her own ideas.it is not adviced for you to forget that Women are like baby and you should never take advantage of a good woman God gave you.the marriage will be standable and stronger,If a man do his home work properly,werther superstar want to marry Each other,the two should check Each other well and know If the journey of marriage they want to take will lead them together Forever and this is reason superstars only date or married few years and Divorced and Remember son Divorce was never a Good thing and is not our Culture and to avoid Divorce a bad wife and take it Easy and you will find a Lady of your choice that will accept you the way God created you and i blessed you son and Wish you many more years(Iseeeee Amen)i am Very satisfied now cause i know to find a Good wife is not a day job and i have Understood the things old men taught me.i agreed with them,If you give a woman Good time she will give you a Wonderful happiness mostly the right person.my friend determination told me Chinedu don't act like tortoise that is about to released out of Jail and he shouted get me out of here I'm tired of being here.i don't know What else to disclose than to tell single ladies and single men,take it Easy and forget about appearances cause we are the problem of ourselves and only us will fix our problems and not our forefathers that are dead and gone.i will Still revisit the elders,Maybe when I'm married in the future and by then i will have more Experienced about marriage.
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