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Pursuit Of Happiness
Well ...hii..i have to say something little here.I know it's already night here in India.But there is something going on in my mind.I just want to share something with you all guys.
I always gain some advice from my closed ones "You focus on your well-being first"."Why you are interfering or writing about others".But what to do?.I know am not experienced or able enough to tell something to others.But deep down,i always feel a deep connection with you all.I always want to see happy faces in my surroundings.You can say it my selfishness or others...but still i want to see you happy all and content with your own life.
And my today's topic is about our anxieties, sufferings,depressions and other complexity issues.Than before,we are now in an advanced stages.Our way and mode of livings are changed.Digitisation and modernization are occurred in every field.So we are now living in a modern era.But one question to all.Are we feeling happy.If not then why??
Reason lies within us.In past time, people were too busy in their life.There were no mobile phones and smart devices for entertainment.People made get-together, when they need a break.Peoples exchanged their conversation through letters.people also faced a lot of problems for that too.But they were happy n long living.Now what are happening.We are exposed outwardly too much.Like movie,we always want to feel excitement n happiness in our life and everything should be picture perfect.We want to be happy in photos than in our real life.When we see other people's stories on Facebook or insta,we envy of them.Women today spend time with their families,but prefer to go kitty parties.And people today like to wear mask outside.They never feel comfortable to share about their problems due to lack of supports.They always boast upon about their materialistic achievements,rather than their mental peace.
Our life is not like movies.In entertainment series,a director wants his/her picture to be hit.So they make their movie and serials,too much unrealistic.And we want to love those , because we lack those in our life.When we will start to believe the real nature of life,our level of expectation will be low.And we should stop believing the sugar coating lies of peoples.We should focus on ourselves and family first.Life is full of ups and downs.Everything are transient here.So we should not expect the same level of happiness and closeness from others.Everything are moving,and we are always in motion.We are on a timeline,where we are going away from each other in each fraction of seconds.So live the moment right now.Adjust yourself accordingly.Dont expect for others to adjust accordingly you.Expect less,then sufferings will be less.
When you will start uncovering the reality,life will be manageable more.Enjoy the present.Experience the nature in your surroundings.Nature is the top source of entertainment,and it waits for you for unraveling ...☺️
© Punyasalila
I always gain some advice from my closed ones "You focus on your well-being first"."Why you are interfering or writing about others".But what to do?.I know am not experienced or able enough to tell something to others.But deep down,i always feel a deep connection with you all.I always want to see happy faces in my surroundings.You can say it my selfishness or others...but still i want to see you happy all and content with your own life.
And my today's topic is about our anxieties, sufferings,depressions and other complexity issues.Than before,we are now in an advanced stages.Our way and mode of livings are changed.Digitisation and modernization are occurred in every field.So we are now living in a modern era.But one question to all.Are we feeling happy.If not then why??
Reason lies within us.In past time, people were too busy in their life.There were no mobile phones and smart devices for entertainment.People made get-together, when they need a break.Peoples exchanged their conversation through letters.people also faced a lot of problems for that too.But they were happy n long living.Now what are happening.We are exposed outwardly too much.Like movie,we always want to feel excitement n happiness in our life and everything should be picture perfect.We want to be happy in photos than in our real life.When we see other people's stories on Facebook or insta,we envy of them.Women today spend time with their families,but prefer to go kitty parties.And people today like to wear mask outside.They never feel comfortable to share about their problems due to lack of supports.They always boast upon about their materialistic achievements,rather than their mental peace.
Our life is not like movies.In entertainment series,a director wants his/her picture to be hit.So they make their movie and serials,too much unrealistic.And we want to love those , because we lack those in our life.When we will start to believe the real nature of life,our level of expectation will be low.And we should stop believing the sugar coating lies of peoples.We should focus on ourselves and family first.Life is full of ups and downs.Everything are transient here.So we should not expect the same level of happiness and closeness from others.Everything are moving,and we are always in motion.We are on a timeline,where we are going away from each other in each fraction of seconds.So live the moment right now.Adjust yourself accordingly.Dont expect for others to adjust accordingly you.Expect less,then sufferings will be less.
When you will start uncovering the reality,life will be manageable more.Enjoy the present.Experience the nature in your surroundings.Nature is the top source of entertainment,and it waits for you for unraveling ...☺️
© Punyasalila
