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Sex is not a Weapon
Many couples use sex as a weapon to punish or control their partner. Sex is food for the soul, its rejuvenating energy. It allows the soul to get connection and reach a higher realm.  It's a pathway to sheer bliss from this physical plain. 

People have very taboo views on sex because someone tainted this spirtual journey for them.  Healing from that hurt, through facing  it non judgementally and forgiveness  of self, helps. Also deciding your abuser has taken enough from you and not allowing an ounce  more.'  Changing this trauma should be a mission. No one should steal your ability to taste heaven, in the here and now.

Notice it is how a soul crosses over from one realm to another. We all came into existence  because of sex. When sex is conmingled with love its is force to be reckoned with. Changes states, rekindle fires, make your essence and physical body glow, and brings forth life.  The Ultimate  gift   is to create that portal for a new lifeforce.

Sex is not something to do to please your partner but for your own spirtuality and upliftment. However how good you please your partner can assist them to bliss, so heightens your ride, if you get fully engaged. 

Research it, practise it,  engage in it,with a loving committed partner. Make having great sex a mental goal, each time becoming better. Take your time with it.  Sex begins in the mind so engage the mind and imagination, engage all the sense. Turn it into artwork. Its  a dance but not a dance routine, you are there to explore each other universe. Each exploration different and new.  Go into it committed,  focused, non judgemental and open up to the experience.

Failing having a partner, enjoy yourself.   Not because someone is in your focus. No see yourself as sexual being with beautiful parts that crave to be touched, stimulated, aroused.   Your skin is a part of your sex organs include your whole body and enjoy it so you can better guide your partner when the time arises. 

Sex is not just the orgasm its the journey. Remember its the naughty glare, the eye action, the brush in the hallway, breathe on the lobe, hand on the nape. Don't  let bed  be where it begins and ends. Let a recap of the night continue the romance thats good high  vibration energy to be surrounded by.  Enjoy!
 
Maria Collymore
Relationship Coach
May 23, 2020