Why the person you hate the most is often the one you love the most ? We hate persons more because of who they are, than because of what they do? The hardest thing in life is to forgive . I think the saddest thing in the world is to watch someone you love turn into everything you hate ! There is nothing more satisfying than reaching the level of self love so much so that when someone walks out of your life . We hate people, they are hurting our egos in someway .When someone we love hurts us emotionally, love can become infiltrated by hate .This happens more often when a person is close to us . Hatred is merely the absence of love . It is the empty space where love is not present , but has no reality of its own . Love and hate are both intense emotions . It also triggers the mind to try to predict what the person being hated may do as a defence mechanism . Love and hate are the two sides of the same coin . Some people might begin to hate another person when they feel envy or want what the other person has ! If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you are allowing them to hurt you again.
When you hate someone, your feelings for him or her are so strong ! It is easy to hate and it is difficult to forget . Hate has the power of huge destruction . It destroys the soul as well as human life . The only product of these emotion is the feeling of unsecure and insecurity of mind . If your relationship ends, it's going to be difficult to simply shrug your shoulders and say, oh well, it didn't workout. It's no big deal . No , you are probably going to have a very strong emotional reaction to that loss . That's where the hatred may begin to form .When they don't love you the way you love them your disappointment can quickly turn to hate . If you hate them strongly enough, it doesn't matter what they do for you, the feeling isn't going to go away easily .