I am Fine!
It is really something dangerous about those people who say they are fine with everything.
This quality of being fine with everything has made them over thinkers, stubborn, unsatisfied and unsurprised.
Which serves as a cushion when they face hardships, betrayals, heart breaks, dishonesty and disloyalty in life from their closed ones, loved ones or unknowns.
As being fine with everything makes you flexible and adaptable to every situation or you just know that you finding a way out on your own is the only option; people start taking you for granted, and do not count in your emotions. Because you are misunderstood as an emotionally strong person, but you just want others to be a bit empathetic towards you sometimes!
Being fine with everything is also considered as lack of self love, one underestimating oneself, denial to their own true emotions and self, not being able to stand up for themselves, or a behaviour of running away from situations, being a people pleaser.
But that is not the case maybe they have asked out for company or help, or asked out someone to listen to them and no one understood that, no one showed up which left them being alone with the option of being independent, gathering up themselves alone and being the way they are.
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So I am really fine with anything and everything that comes up in front of me. I will try all of my might to understand and accept.
Don't misunderstand this quality of mine as an easy pass to mess with my peace.
Because in the end you are giving me just another reason for being FINE!
© Tanvi Dalvi
This quality of being fine with everything has made them over thinkers, stubborn, unsatisfied and unsurprised.
Which serves as a cushion when they face hardships, betrayals, heart breaks, dishonesty and disloyalty in life from their closed ones, loved ones or unknowns.
As being fine with everything makes you flexible and adaptable to every situation or you just know that you finding a way out on your own is the only option; people start taking you for granted, and do not count in your emotions. Because you are misunderstood as an emotionally strong person, but you just want others to be a bit empathetic towards you sometimes!
Being fine with everything is also considered as lack of self love, one underestimating oneself, denial to their own true emotions and self, not being able to stand up for themselves, or a behaviour of running away from situations, being a people pleaser.
But that is not the case maybe they have asked out for company or help, or asked out someone to listen to them and no one understood that, no one showed up which left them being alone with the option of being independent, gathering up themselves alone and being the way they are.
.
So I am really fine with anything and everything that comes up in front of me. I will try all of my might to understand and accept.
Don't misunderstand this quality of mine as an easy pass to mess with my peace.
Because in the end you are giving me just another reason for being FINE!
© Tanvi Dalvi