Every experience that we go through has something to teach us and until we learn that lesson that cycle keeps on repeating we tend to attract same kind of people or situations only to realise we need to change some things within us to break free from certain life pattern and once we realize that we need to work within ourselves heal some issues within us and we start doing it we ascend to our new version and this is known as spritual work ....in short with every experience we update from our old version and we keep learning and become more wise and this learning experience continues till our last breath because our soul has agreed upon learning these lessons before we have decided to incarnate in this lifetime so whatever happens it happens for a reason ......we may not realise at that moment when are going through it but later we realize that it only happened to make us more strong and better version of us so that we can have new beginning with better opportunities and better people and life is balance of good and bad moments it's never extreme actually there is no right or wrong it's universe way of putting us on our path through some hard lessons and it's upon us to learn from it and make wise decision because we have free will too ..... because we create our own destiny by our own choice we learn and move to next chapter and if you want to be successful and happy take Responsibility of your own actions ....do self love .... nobody can make your life better it's only you ..... don't stay in victim mentality infact always believe your happiness and love is within you inner peace is within you .....never let it get distracted by other person or situations ...... sometimes situations are difficult but always remember what's happening it is for some reason and everthing will be alright never loose hope you have only one life live it to full and happily as much as you can and you can do that by simply start living in present moment because past is dead and future is uncertain so focus on present moment you will automatically start making your life better and you will realise how good it is that your life has become peaceful by living each day as it comes 💕😊