To be a fearless soldier needs certain circumstances in order to be initiated. Where you will be humbled, moulded and trained on how to put on the armor in order to defeat the warfare. And in life is exactly as that, you can never grow to a certain level if trials and tribulations don't come along and it comes at different stages in our lives.

Fortunately to me that stage came a little bit earlier. I had no choice but to grab the opportunity with both hands all the way to the winning line. Guess what, life happened and throw motherhood on my face. I had to learn to mother someone while I still needed to mothered myself. When fate decided...