life is not perfect, but in a smile it can be to others, many smile on the outside, screams on the inside, because at time what we see is not what we get and we are left to pick up the pieces, of our love, heart and life, there is a saying that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, when we chose to love someone we love all there ways, good and bad but sometimes we are blinded by that smile, that welcome us , we don't see all that is wrong, until later when we are too in love, so in love, I rather one tell me their ways first let me see if it's something I can look pass or work with because when one comes into a relationship, love and the bad things start...