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Bhagbat Katha And Self Preservation thoughts
It's been a while, I have been blocking people,
whether they are very good friends or unknown people, or relatives...
I am simply ignoring and blocking. But there was a little guilt within me, thinking I just let them go when may be they were really in need of me.
Yesterday was watching Bhagavat Katha by Indreshji and He shared with lots of evidence, love and critical thinking why should you let them go, who don't believe or follow Krishna or Sri Ram. And how God and Hanuman ji bless someone who dares to do that. I was like in cloud 9. Truly it could be an achievement I didn't know. But I had realized at a point that it's easy to doubt the presence of Almighty. And once He do everything to prove that, it's your job to protect that feeling. Because It's not Him who doubt in you. It's you who doubt on Him. How many times a lover will prove Himself and why ? Can you do the same for someone? But He never hesitates or will do. But it hurts me to the core when I make Him do that.
Once you find a solution, you can only give that solution to others. But not everyone can feel, experience or expect that from you. In that case, just take a break from those people instead of worning out yourselves. Because it's not your job to prove presence of a God in someone's life. You can share an idea... A chanting, a saying, a truth, few experiences or few true stories... If someone still doubts and waits for you to sing a lullaby for them... you are seriously in a big dangerous place.
Don't loose yourself for someone who is testing your believe system or your truth. You could be no more helpful to others if you are no more trusting what you do. And if someone breaks that trust not once or twice but more times just not by appreciating or accepting the truth. Let them deal their life with. You live yours. Because until their karmic states don't change, they don't want, even God can't reach them. Being a human, God has given us a privilege to think and work as per our own desire. Who don't believe either on themselves or on God, and unless we desire to know Him, feel or experience Him, even He can't help them. And also everyone's prarabdha makes it reasonable how one experiences life within and around. Not everyone can be with Him, either by their past or current karm. I am not saying be rude to them. But to simply with respect disconnect. Not to loose yourself. Specially if you are a Pisces and it's hard for you to maintain your emotional boundaries. I am very sure you would be picking energies of the field and emotions of people you are in contact with. It's kind of self reserving. Specially when you know you can't help someone in anyone and you have already tried your best. Having concern for someone in heart is different and dwelling with them in an area you don't want to is different.
Because that's the sure way of not getting your goals in life. Even if your goal is serving people, you should learn upto what extent you can help someone around and where you let them to become independent. Don't be the punch bag of others or emotional dustbin. Who don't care about your sanity, Bhakti and spiritual feelings.
You asked someone let's not talk about this anymore and they continue means, they are going through a mental flood, and they just need your brain to keep back that extra water. Don't be there. Very close friend, you did for once, twice, thrice, a month. Then leave or at last you would be at the same place.
Har Har Mahadev.
© RameswariMishra
whether they are very good friends or unknown people, or relatives...
I am simply ignoring and blocking. But there was a little guilt within me, thinking I just let them go when may be they were really in need of me.
Yesterday was watching Bhagavat Katha by Indreshji and He shared with lots of evidence, love and critical thinking why should you let them go, who don't believe or follow Krishna or Sri Ram. And how God and Hanuman ji bless someone who dares to do that. I was like in cloud 9. Truly it could be an achievement I didn't know. But I had realized at a point that it's easy to doubt the presence of Almighty. And once He do everything to prove that, it's your job to protect that feeling. Because It's not Him who doubt in you. It's you who doubt on Him. How many times a lover will prove Himself and why ? Can you do the same for someone? But He never hesitates or will do. But it hurts me to the core when I make Him do that.
Once you find a solution, you can only give that solution to others. But not everyone can feel, experience or expect that from you. In that case, just take a break from those people instead of worning out yourselves. Because it's not your job to prove presence of a God in someone's life. You can share an idea... A chanting, a saying, a truth, few experiences or few true stories... If someone still doubts and waits for you to sing a lullaby for them... you are seriously in a big dangerous place.
Don't loose yourself for someone who is testing your believe system or your truth. You could be no more helpful to others if you are no more trusting what you do. And if someone breaks that trust not once or twice but more times just not by appreciating or accepting the truth. Let them deal their life with. You live yours. Because until their karmic states don't change, they don't want, even God can't reach them. Being a human, God has given us a privilege to think and work as per our own desire. Who don't believe either on themselves or on God, and unless we desire to know Him, feel or experience Him, even He can't help them. And also everyone's prarabdha makes it reasonable how one experiences life within and around. Not everyone can be with Him, either by their past or current karm. I am not saying be rude to them. But to simply with respect disconnect. Not to loose yourself. Specially if you are a Pisces and it's hard for you to maintain your emotional boundaries. I am very sure you would be picking energies of the field and emotions of people you are in contact with. It's kind of self reserving. Specially when you know you can't help someone in anyone and you have already tried your best. Having concern for someone in heart is different and dwelling with them in an area you don't want to is different.
Because that's the sure way of not getting your goals in life. Even if your goal is serving people, you should learn upto what extent you can help someone around and where you let them to become independent. Don't be the punch bag of others or emotional dustbin. Who don't care about your sanity, Bhakti and spiritual feelings.
You asked someone let's not talk about this anymore and they continue means, they are going through a mental flood, and they just need your brain to keep back that extra water. Don't be there. Very close friend, you did for once, twice, thrice, a month. Then leave or at last you would be at the same place.
Har Har Mahadev.
© RameswariMishra
