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THE FAKE BEING.
Some People aren't really all that they "post to be"
Truth be told some people are in debt just because they are trying too hard to be who they're not.

Since life is full of ups and downs, we would, at one point in time, be tempted to live fake lives to please people and get their approval, avoid shame and get their praise and respect. Don't do it.
Be matured and know that people's perspective about you does not define you or determine your worth so stop trying to belong or impress people that don't even give you a penny. If you are already living a fake life, try to start strategically coming out with the truth because the longer you live a fake life, the harder it is to come out with the truth. It would be disastrous and embarrassing when people finally find out who the person you're.
If you come out clean and that girl or boy woman or man you like will love you more just the way you're.
You don't need change who you're for anyone just to meet up with there standard
If you come out clean and those group of friends start misbehaving and don't want you anymore, let them go.
Listen Everyone cannot be your friend and what they think no cannot make you live healthy

If your status, bio or whatever on social media says you study in the UK while you are here in Nigeria or whichever country you claim to be, remove it.

If your status, bio or whatever on social media says that you are working at Chevron while you are actually jobless, remove it.
It's better to live it blank than tell lies.
Use your discretion to come out clean or if you can't come out, don't say anything at all and don't lie any further.

If you deceive yourself, it will be hard to get helpers. If you appear to be rich on social media, people will conclude you are rich.


Some girls do not have anything else to offer apart from looking sexy. Argue all you want, but this is the truth. Most ladies spend all their time and resources on their appearance, just to look sexy -forgetting that He is not going to be Hot forever.

There are times when he would only need a real woman to share his worries with and your miniskirts, half top displaying your body and long lashes would not bring anything to that table. There would be days when he would need your managerial qualities, but you are only used to living lavish. Slay mama!

Can we just stop living fake lives? Who exactly are we trying to impress? Boys, why are you always snapping pictures beside a car that isn't yours?

I understand that the pressure to succeed along with your mates is high in our society but you must always be reasonable and not follow the band wagon. Stop telling lies and start being real. If people look down on you and don't want to be your friend because you are not making it then they are not your friends indeed. They are not worth going out of your way to please. Your true friends are those who are always by your side and treat you nicely even if you are a nobody. People live fake lives trying to avoid shame, impress and get acceptance, approval and praise from people who don't care a damn about them. This is a pressure from society that only the childish in mind succumbs to.

Don't spend all your days making-up, doing nails and turning up anywhere a DJ takes his speakers to.
Build yourself. You don't need to go high so you can meet their standard even when you're not who you prostrate to be.
Learn and practice things that can add values to your life. Being beautiful, handsome or sexy doesn't prevent you from still being dumb at the end of the day. because your beauty won't tell how good your thinking and understanding process looks.

FACE REALITY AND STOP LIVING THAT FAKE LIFE...
We all have rights to our own opinions isn't it; please just stop pretending for once, let your mind be at rest, stop living that fake lifestyle…

@felicoco


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