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Friend types #1
In my life i have encountered different kinds of people, some good and some bad but i have only been able to call a few friends, but even then friends are human too and they can dissappoint.
so i will be making a list of friend types i or people close to me have had and how to deal with them.
1) FOR BETTER FOR STAY FOR WORSE FOR GO FRIENDS
These type of friends are the kind who tend to ditch you when you're in one kind of trouble or another, it's not like they can't be kind to you or that they don't care about you, it's just that they don't want your trouble affecting them because they believe that they are not strong enough to handle it. After the trouble passes they always come back, but you might not be willing to accept them back.
HANDLING
When you get into a very bad situation don't even call them, cause they won't come and that will only hurt you the more, so spare yourself the hurt and call your other reliable friend types.
2) LOVE AND VISIT THY NEIGHBOUR FRIENDS
These type of friends are one of the kind that are truly loyal to you, they can back you up no matter the situation, their only problem is that they are always in your house. There is always a time in whatever kind of relationship when you need a little time apart just to miss each other. well these friends will not have it, they can be in your house morning, noon and night everyday, 7 days a week unless they are busy with school, work or other things. these friend types expect you to visit them the way they visit you, but maybe you're just not that kind of person, maybe you're someone like me who would rather lay in bed reading a good book than go shopping at the mall which is just five minuites away on foot.
HANDLING
Handling these types of friends can be very tricky, they can take offense when you try to tell them that you don't like how frequently they come to your house.
people end up lying that they're not home or that they travelled, Its best to say that with these types of friends only God can help.
To be continued.......
© AishaAbdulkarim
so i will be making a list of friend types i or people close to me have had and how to deal with them.
1) FOR BETTER FOR STAY FOR WORSE FOR GO FRIENDS
These type of friends are the kind who tend to ditch you when you're in one kind of trouble or another, it's not like they can't be kind to you or that they don't care about you, it's just that they don't want your trouble affecting them because they believe that they are not strong enough to handle it. After the trouble passes they always come back, but you might not be willing to accept them back.
HANDLING
When you get into a very bad situation don't even call them, cause they won't come and that will only hurt you the more, so spare yourself the hurt and call your other reliable friend types.
2) LOVE AND VISIT THY NEIGHBOUR FRIENDS
These type of friends are one of the kind that are truly loyal to you, they can back you up no matter the situation, their only problem is that they are always in your house. There is always a time in whatever kind of relationship when you need a little time apart just to miss each other. well these friends will not have it, they can be in your house morning, noon and night everyday, 7 days a week unless they are busy with school, work or other things. these friend types expect you to visit them the way they visit you, but maybe you're just not that kind of person, maybe you're someone like me who would rather lay in bed reading a good book than go shopping at the mall which is just five minuites away on foot.
HANDLING
Handling these types of friends can be very tricky, they can take offense when you try to tell them that you don't like how frequently they come to your house.
people end up lying that they're not home or that they travelled, Its best to say that with these types of friends only God can help.
To be continued.......
© AishaAbdulkarim
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