Trying to co-parent is never easy much less when you've always been the "younger woman" in this clusterfuck of reality.

It's like all the things a person fell in love with can be turned into something ugly and bitter. Only the divorce has been over but hes still ugly.

I get nothing changes overnight. But could it go just a little tiny bit faster?? Oh no, this bitterness has to linger for years fermenting into what should of been an amazing, smooth glass of wine sipped while gushing over another breath taken sunset...instead..you might as well have Uncle Si' swamp water passed off as tea.

The generation gaps are steep. So steep, that what I would of laughed off as a silly number...is in fact the difference between generations of hate and generations of love.

Literally never saw what others pointed and stared at until a hospital visit nearly two decades ago...the doc asked my ex husband, who was only my boyfriend back then, if he was my father...I was hoped up on a morphine drip, so I found that a little too hysterical. My ex was humiliated and called my mother to come stay will me.☠🤒😂

Theres no compromise..its either the "old mans" right way (psst couldn't be anymore wrong!) or no way..welp..that's just never worked for me.

I'm far from blind and dont need your permission to realize in my own little ol brain...you're full of the biggest pile of horse shit I've ever had the pleasure of smelling! I cant believe I was so nose blind for so long!

Young, dumb, and full of cum! Wisest words I ever heard! Truly explains so much!

Sure, theres "comparisons". We can all FIND common ground and get along. But do they truly want to?? Are some people just truly hard wired to hate and be just pure evil assholes just for the sake of doing it??

I dont think anyone starts that way. It's the traumas we've experienced and how we've processed them that define so much of us all. It doesnt even have to be a straight jacket..a simple horrific flashback can be enough to do the trick.

It's one thing to find out you knew nothing about your partner, father of your children was true..but its whole other ballgame when you realize the damage ranging inside that man,that's been masked,missed,stepped on, thrown out, and I know I've said it a time or two..how are you still alive??....Will NEVER EVER CHANGE.

Some old dogs truly cant learn new tricks. They're too stuck in their ways. Even more ironic, considering in many ways..I WAS that old dogs new tricks. Oof..

Finding out more truth about the man just further pushed me away and made me feel sorry for every woman hes ever effected. Yes..effected..if you met the man..trust me..you'll walk away.. with a side of trauma having lived thru that experience.

It just amazes me the man has not one..not two..not even three..but..EIGHT bloody kids between three woman...and doesnt know a damn thing about any of his exs or their kids! How is that possible?! How can someone mass produce children on two different continents, travel the world, fight WARS, but doesnt have the slightest clue what is like to have compassion or empathy?!

How????

How far inside a bottle do you got to stay, avoiding the realities of what your life experiences has shown you, until you realize that even when you finally sober up...you're still the same miserable deceitful man you've always been..you'll just live a little longer because your sober and your new wifes found God!

Oh for fuck sakes dont get me started!

There is nothing more irritating in the world than a midlife crisis, middle aged, white Carol that found fucking Jesus! Bitch.. he was always there but thanks for playing!

If I have to hear one more god damn scripture from a hypocrite that damn sure doesnt walk the walk of the true Christian she wants the world to think she is...I'm gonna just go right ahead and snap. Fuck it. I'll wave the white flag after the fact.

Dont sit there and try to tell me what's best for MY KIDS or shit about their father whom I've had TWENTY YEARS EXPERIENCE WITH AND HELPED RAISE 6 OF HIS 8 KID'S!!

You're so far out of your league at this point, ya might want to call your preacher and start a prayer chain..at least youd feel better sista!

Its one thing to want to be supportive of your partner and their DRUNKEN DELUSIONS...its a whole other ball of wax to sit there and manipulate a child's thinking to suit your wants!

a child has no business being mixed up in grown folks affairs . The divorce, custody, let alone CHILD SUPPORT is between the two parents..you know the one with the egg that was fertilized by daddys swimmers and then the mommy GREW A HUMAN! Yeah..that human...if you're gonna be apart of their lives...you best figure out their MOTHER will always be apart of their lives and no matter what deceitful manipulative twisted mind games your playing on MY CHILD ...I WILL ALWAYS SEE THRU it and I WILL do every thing necessary on God's green earth to ensure my child's sanity is safe.

Who gives a shit how nice you've made a house look if behind closed doors is psychological warfare constantly because the new step mom is and has been jealous and insecure from day one??

Do people even realize while there busy trying to sabotage relationships , the children are aware they're being used as pawns? Seriously..shut your mouth and open your eyes.

Its kind of funny too when the new lady takes every chance to throw some passive aggressive jab as if I havent already planned out how to take her out when the sun sets. Dont worry lady..I'm patient. I'm from the south as well, I'm well aware of how to be a complete bitch WITH a smile.🤦‍♀️

I pray that woman figures out how to stay in her lane. Or the next four years are going to be one thriller of a ride.