we are humans and we make mistakes.

when we make mistakes and we regret it, we feel sorry to the person we have done wrong to.

sometimes we get the chance to say sorry, sometimes we don't.

sometimes we get misunderstood and we get the chance to explain the other side of the story, but sometimes we don't get that chance.

sometimes it takes quite a long time for us to realize our mistakes and feel sorry, so we refrain ourselves from saying sorry to that person because we don' want the wound from the past to bleed again.

the point is, even when sometimes we do not say sorry and not able to explain ourselves, we do feel sorry – and that's the most important because that feeling will guide us to not do it again and do good things to redeem our mistakes.


similarly, when people do wrong things to us, think about it; think about the times when we have done wrong to a person and we are really sorry but didn't get the chance to say sorry, etc.

maybe, the reason why some people do mean things to you and still haven't apologize to you is because of that too.

so, don't wait for a person to apologize to you to forgive them, because even people who says sorry sometimes don't mean it – so don't bother to wait for a person to say sorry to you to forgive them; just forgive them knowing that we ourselves made some mistakes and wrong things to another person too.

furthermore, forgiving lightens your heart, it frees you from the pain of the past.