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SORRY FOR YOURSELF
Most people don't feel sorry about the wrong they did, they are saying sorry because they got caught in the act, if they were not caught, they would not have stopped what they were doing, and even after you forgive them, they will still go behind you and do their thing, they don't care about you or your feelings, they are selfish in all they do, that is why I say they should be sorry for themselves not for you because they have shown you their true colors and now its left for you to either leave them or stay and allow them to keep using your heart as their emotional punching bag.
For instance, when a wife/husband is cheating on their spouse and realizes within themselves that what they are doing is wrong and they apologize sincerely for their mistakes with the promise of never doing it again, that is true repentance, not when you cheat repeatedly without even caring about the consequences involved and when you get caught, you now start acting like you didn't know that what you were doing was bad and some people even have the guts to blame it on the devil, that is the highest level of irresponsibility.
One of the biggest signs of maturity is admitting you are wrong first, then working on how to fix things because if you can't even identify that you have a problem, how then will you fix it?
Most people don't even feel genuinely sorry for their mistakes, instead, they find something or someone to blame for making them do what they did wrong instead of taking full responsibility for their mistakes and looking for ways to stop that same kind of mistake from reoccurring in the future.
We are humans and we are not flawless, we are bound to make mistakes but what stands us out as good humans is the willingness to learn from those mistakes, let us be consistent in improving and developing ourselves positively, and stop being persistent about proving a point when we are wrong.
We adults all know the difference between what is good and what is bad, you don't have to be religious to know what is bad or wrong, our lives will be better if we stop the blaming, complaining, and maiming and start reorganizing, restructuring, and rehabilitating ourselves to do better for our self-improvement, and we need to first start by admitting when we are wrong, to improve, we have to start with self-rediscovery, ask yourself who you want to be and who do you want other people to see you as? Do that and you will be surprised at how drastically your life will turn around. As the saying goes; fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
May God help us to always do what is right before him because that will also make us always do what is right before men, Amen.
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For instance, when a wife/husband is cheating on their spouse and realizes within themselves that what they are doing is wrong and they apologize sincerely for their mistakes with the promise of never doing it again, that is true repentance, not when you cheat repeatedly without even caring about the consequences involved and when you get caught, you now start acting like you didn't know that what you were doing was bad and some people even have the guts to blame it on the devil, that is the highest level of irresponsibility.
One of the biggest signs of maturity is admitting you are wrong first, then working on how to fix things because if you can't even identify that you have a problem, how then will you fix it?
Most people don't even feel genuinely sorry for their mistakes, instead, they find something or someone to blame for making them do what they did wrong instead of taking full responsibility for their mistakes and looking for ways to stop that same kind of mistake from reoccurring in the future.
We are humans and we are not flawless, we are bound to make mistakes but what stands us out as good humans is the willingness to learn from those mistakes, let us be consistent in improving and developing ourselves positively, and stop being persistent about proving a point when we are wrong.
We adults all know the difference between what is good and what is bad, you don't have to be religious to know what is bad or wrong, our lives will be better if we stop the blaming, complaining, and maiming and start reorganizing, restructuring, and rehabilitating ourselves to do better for our self-improvement, and we need to first start by admitting when we are wrong, to improve, we have to start with self-rediscovery, ask yourself who you want to be and who do you want other people to see you as? Do that and you will be surprised at how drastically your life will turn around. As the saying goes; fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
May God help us to always do what is right before him because that will also make us always do what is right before men, Amen.
©F.I.D libraries
