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Every day of mine starts with all same old weird dialogues! 
Where every individual I meet ask about my size! My +size tho 😌 !
Is it a sin to be in plus size ?
And people claim it to be as a care of our wellness!

I really don't understand what is wrong about being heavier  , every time I ask this  people come up with all sort of answers which is killing, all the more!

These are the frequently herd answers!
When you are in school and college people ask you to reduce since you can't wear those so called good looking dress, 
You won't get a lot of options to shop! How stupid!?
Your friends won't be comfortable with you! When you look like this!
You can't be normal you can't work or do anything normally!
Finally guys won't like the since your big!

When you are up to work, the same continues added on with

Won't you feel bad looking at other who are slim..
Some will be like dot feel. Inferior about your looks if you would diet you will be perfectly alright 😂
Finally it ends in 
Grooms won't like you, you will get rejected of your looks which will be painful for you!

The most inappropriate one is you can't give birth naturally 🤕

Hearing all these right from teen or childhood the girl would be numb in her feelings !

I really don't understand the concept of being size 0 😂!

Will this gain you an extra privilege to be praised ?
Will this give you more options of selecting  groom based on your looks!
Will size zero be an identity or a gate pass for marriage?

We are in a society where people think that they  will have to look good to sustain their self! Looking good is never wrong but definition of this looking good is wrong!

Size zero is never a definition of looking good! People are looking good based on their inner beauty, that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholders ! ❤

Here are my answers for people who think size is a definition of identity

If you think your size or looks will be a gate pass for a wedding, then surely that life will not sustain long! No matter what your body is a piece of flesh it can change anytime possibly but your Soul never does! ❤ look for the souls .

Dressing up or having a wide range of options shop will not be possible,  yes man it's not possible but more than that we concentrate on external looks we start looking for your internal looks , that will get you a wide range to get to!

Being a + sized girl never feel inferior you always stand out of the group, uniques in every stands,  people say you can't work Normally you get tired? Tell them a big yes because tortoise won the race not the hair!  Proudly tell your size haters yes I am big and I have a big heart accompany my size which you don't have! 😂

Never put a sad face when they tell you something inappropriate! Just because you are in +size . Being a + size women or a girl isn't our choice it was naturally built that way , why should I change it for someone's happiness!

If you really think changing your self gives you happiness do change but if you aren't comfortable doing it don't later one day you will feel lost for doing it!

Life is all about experiencing , learning and  experimenting it's never to be ashamed of your body! Your body is just a piece of flesh  , but never be ashamed of your soul, it's what you are!

Every girl would voice out for this but still there is no big change evidenced! I always believe in 2 statements

Change is inevitable
Be the change you want to evidence

We are the change makers at least let's make the future society to not be the cliche !
Your size  or your looks never defines who you are - define your self through your brains! 😂

Happy living ❤