Don’t get too immersed in something which becomes disturbing at some point of time.
Don’t be selfish in your approach and always have feelings for others.
Life is too short to get into things which actually bother you and it’s really important to live the life happily rather than in pain.
I often see others and ponder over the kind of relationships they portray, which is actually not the ground reality. But why fake and not live the way you want to live the life you want. Feelings for each other and understanding them is important, but you must also have your say on things which matter to you, rather than anyone else.
I have also seen people getting into the troubles of others life rather than make their own relationship steady. Helpjng is fine but just to an extent to make them comfortable in a way that they get over with the issues they are facing. Helping your own self to attain contentment is more important to remain focused in life and killing time on such distractions is a real waste. Lots of capable people waste their talent and time on some distractions which are not of much concern to anyone at all most of the times.
There will be times when we can ourselves feel what is important and what will be a waste of time, and we should take a call when we feel like, rather than get stuck in something which is not worthwhile. Doing good for others is fine, but ignoring your own needs is foolish, give time to yourself afterall it’s your life which matters the most in the end.

© सुneel