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.HOW FAR.
I woke up to the sound of my phone ringing, I quickly check the time it was 2 a.m.
I wonder who could be calling me by this time. As I reached for the phone, my mind was filled with fear as to who could it be, I don't expect any call by this time. when I check the contact calling, it was my mother-in-law.
but why is she calling by this time.
My name is Belinda and this is my story.
I was 24 years old when I made friends with a guy called Kobby, we were such good friends and I found comfort and joy being around him. our friendship lasted for years, which later on turn into a relationship. After a few years of being together ,kobby proposed and I agreed.
on July 5th I got married to Kobby it was all joy and excitement, it almost felt like my biggest dream has come true ,because Kobby was gentle ,calm, hardworking and he respected me as a woman .And these qualities of his made me love him very much. After our honeymoon I moved in with Kobby, just a week after wedding. I hate to say this, but frankly Kobe hadn't touched me yet, we were together with the slogan, not to do anything until marriage. Even at our honeymoon, we chose not to do something but later when we go back home. But when Kobby resumed work, his attitude changed.
When he comes back home from work, unlike he usually does to say hello, he will just walk straight to the bedroom and not even say a hi or hello to me. It's Continues even to the point at mornings I wasn't receiving greetings anymore. I decided to give him a space if maybe that's what he is looking for. Whenever I try to ask him if everything was alright, he would shove away my question and turn me down, saying he is busy at the moment.We never had a chance to even sit and talk, I started getting worried ,I was getting so worried I had to call my mother-in-law and even my mum,to let them know what was going on. My mum concoled me to give him time , explaining he might just be trying to balance the emotions of getting into marriage .My mother-in-law also consoled me ,that I should be patient and just pray on...
I wonder who could be calling me by this time. As I reached for the phone, my mind was filled with fear as to who could it be, I don't expect any call by this time. when I check the contact calling, it was my mother-in-law.
but why is she calling by this time.
My name is Belinda and this is my story.
I was 24 years old when I made friends with a guy called Kobby, we were such good friends and I found comfort and joy being around him. our friendship lasted for years, which later on turn into a relationship. After a few years of being together ,kobby proposed and I agreed.
on July 5th I got married to Kobby it was all joy and excitement, it almost felt like my biggest dream has come true ,because Kobby was gentle ,calm, hardworking and he respected me as a woman .And these qualities of his made me love him very much. After our honeymoon I moved in with Kobby, just a week after wedding. I hate to say this, but frankly Kobe hadn't touched me yet, we were together with the slogan, not to do anything until marriage. Even at our honeymoon, we chose not to do something but later when we go back home. But when Kobby resumed work, his attitude changed.
When he comes back home from work, unlike he usually does to say hello, he will just walk straight to the bedroom and not even say a hi or hello to me. It's Continues even to the point at mornings I wasn't receiving greetings anymore. I decided to give him a space if maybe that's what he is looking for. Whenever I try to ask him if everything was alright, he would shove away my question and turn me down, saying he is busy at the moment.We never had a chance to even sit and talk, I started getting worried ,I was getting so worried I had to call my mother-in-law and even my mum,to let them know what was going on. My mum concoled me to give him time , explaining he might just be trying to balance the emotions of getting into marriage .My mother-in-law also consoled me ,that I should be patient and just pray on...
