There are a few things I try to live by. I find they make me happier, and they tend to make the world a better place.

"Say what you mean and mean what you say." On those rare occasions when my lady asks me if I mean what I just said, I tell her I always try to live by this. If you don't mean it people will eventually find out and begin to doubt everything you say. And gentle honesty is generally appreciated. Don't couch your words but don't be uncaring either.

Offer food for thought, not advice. I've learned from countless times in group therapy, both in and out of the...