The narcissists need love and they crave love, and they go over and beyond to get it. It`s what happens after they have found a source willing and able to love them, that makes the narcissistic trades be prominent. Now, you need to be contained. This is when the abuse sets in, to ensure control over you and make you easy to deal with.

To be unhappy in love, is not a desired state of mind. It is uncomfortable, and most of us have felt the heavy sting of sadness, when longing for a love, not meant to be.

The narcissist has a bulletproof system that protects them from the pain of unfulfilled love. If they could change, they would not be narcissists. A narcissist does not trust that the love you feel for him will last. They have a very poor inner core, and they...