The aims of every relationship, be it marital, courtship, friendship, or platonic, are to help ease each other's stress and burden, to support and encourage each other, to be a shoulder to rely on when the whole world seems to be against you, your relationship should provide a shoulder where you will find peace, succor, and solace without any atom of fear of being judged.

Anything short of that is a red flag and a threat to you and your well-being, anybody in your life that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive for you, get rid of the person from your life, the person will never change, until you see a real genuine change, discontinue the relationship.

There is always a better person out there that will flow with how you are built as a person and in any relationship where you find people hiding their feelings or certain things from you, be very afraid of anybody that does not express their anger, joy or opinion, it is deadly.

People who don't express how they truly feel deep inside to you in a relationship will overwhelm you the day that they finally decide to open their mouth and their minds to speak because the person must have piled up a lot of things that would have just be treated and forgotten, you will be left very hurt and lost to realize that you have been in a relationship with a stranger.

Don't go into any form of a committed relationship with the hope that, the person will change, make sure you see the genuine change before you go into the level of commitment, if not, you will be caught in a web of something you never bargained for.

Better let go and feel the pain for a little while and forget later, than to endure the pain all your life because you were too afraid to tackle the problem at the time when you were supposed to do something to redeem the situation.

It takes divine intervention for people to change, don't ever for a second think that you as an individual can change anybody.

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