BUILD THEM TOUGH AND READY.

Between my first son and I, the relationship is hot and cold, always has been.

He is exactly like me, just male.

It's just the same way, I am, like my father but female.🤷🏽‍♀️

So yes, he has the flare for cooking, he actually can cook up a storm, one of his best anime movie series Is 'Food Wars', where they fight to win competition of the chefs, culinary school and all.

While he simply watched me over the years and learnt more along the way, his younger brother had to stand with me In the kitchen and learn cooking like an actual student, measurement and recipies.

But now, they both mesmerize me In the kitchen, they even make the 'Philly cheese steak', their own version, Its really good.

So I don't really cook that much anymore, except I feel like It, which means the food is for me, and they can then share of it.

But I simply have refused to keep quiet when they act nonchalant around the house or inside my kitchen, they must clean up after them selves and their cooking.

You see, my dad, and his elder brother, daddy agba, I keep saying till this day, with no exaggeration, that none of us children measure up to them and their courage, grit and tenacity when they were in their youth.

In their time, yes, you can say the times were way better than we have now, but then, they were built tough, life did that.

The thing Is, they took it head on and showed life several acres filled with lemonade barrels with the lemon It had vengefully provided them.

By the age of 30 and above they had a huge factory In Ota, Ijako...