Darr kithna aajeeb shabd hai. Yeha ek shabd jeevan may kitha badlav laatha hai. Aur kis ka hum na jaane, lekin apne jeevan mai kaafi mod la yi hai ! Chinta mat karo yaar, naahi mai apni katha sunane vale hai, ya 'darr' flim ko duharane vale hai ! Yeh khosis tho apni beti ko protsahit karane ke liye aur unko bhi jine 'darr' se khafi khab-raatey hai. Shayad mera vichaar kuch maayiney karjaye. Ek raaz ki bhath batayen...yis samay hamay kafi khabraht ho rahi hai....kiyu ke yeh mera pehala pravachan hai. Darr agar jeevan may na ho, tho zindaji may ruchi kaise aayega ! anek logh aur anek vichar aur uske sath anek darr.

Kisi ko bhoot se darr hai toh, kisi ko bhoot ke flimmo se ! Kisi ko jungle ke sher se heytoh, kisi ko cockroch se darr ! Kisi ko akele phan se darr hai toh, kisi ko mehafil se ! Kisi ko nafrat se darr hai toh, kisi ko shoharat ghum hoy janeki ! Kisi ko fail ho neki tho, kisi ko kham mark leyne se darr.

Anek logh, Anek darr !
Yis darr ke kitne rang,
koyi yis darr se doobah toh, koyi ubrah !
Anek logh, Anek darr !
paaye toh paaye,
kaise paaye khabu yis darr par!
Humey na koyi samjey,
naahi samjey uljhan hamari!

Darrpe khabu paana jithna aasan hai, uthnahi usko samajna mushkil hai. Jis din ye gyan miljayiji, oos din milegha yis darr se mukti. Darr se kaise khabu paave hum aapko bhada nahi paaveje, kiyu ki hum khud ubhar rahe hai usse abhi.... Humne shirf yithna jana kisipar khabu paane ke liye, usse apna na zaruri hai.

Apni hi udahaaran le rahi hu yaha. Humey angrezi me khafi kamzori thi. Yis bhat ko lekar kafi log mera mazak karte tey. Koyi mera mazak na kare yis liye mai apna zabhan bhand rakthi. Mere zabhan bhand rehene par bhi mazak....this is too much. Yaise din kuzarthe jaye meri muskilo ki dhaira bhadtha jaya. Mai hameshaa kohi kohi rehati thi aur mera school mark bhi kafi kam aane laje.

Ek din mere ajyapak ne mujhse poocha kiyu mera school marks mey yithna kamiya aur mai hamesha gumsum kiyu rehathi hu. Us din unsey kaha ki logo ke mazak se darr ti hu aur yis mazak ko lekar kithna sharminda ji hone lagi. Mere ajyapak saari bhaat sunnke bhad kaha - logo ka kham hi mazak kar na hai. Kiyu ke vo chahate hai ki tum kabhi bhi aajey na bhado aur unki kamiya na pehachan paavo. Yin sabse darr na galath nani hai, magar yithna nahi ki tum zindagii se hi haarjavo! Pehle tum yis shach ko maano ki tumay angrezi nahi aati aur angrezi par kaise vikasan paaye yis par dhayan kendrit karo. Kin kin shadu bar mazak karte hai uspar dyan dho aur usse sudharo. Tumari ye khosis zarur rang laayegi. Zindagi ki jeet ki cidi pratiksha aur koshish hai. Ye sadha yaad rakhna.

Mere ajyapak ke vichar mujhe prenna dhi aur dheere dheere angrezi bhat kar ne suru ki. Mere ajyapak aur mere dosto ney meri madad ki. Aaj agar mai bhitha huha kal yaad karti hu, mujmey jo bhadlav hu hi hai uske liye mere ajyapak hi hai.

Abto mera yithna hi maanna hai ki, darr kisi bi bhat ki ho, usse apnavo, usko sudravo aur pratiksha karo. Zindagi rang laayegi!

Yeha pravachan apni beti ke liye koshish ki hai. Aasha karti hu ki aapko bhi pasand aayi hogi. Aap sabhi ko dil se aabhaar. Dhanyawad.