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What is Love ?
Love is one of the largest mysteries everyone doesn't really truly understand. So before I explain it. This is solely based on my opinion and not the facts of what many authors claim they know.
No one really knows what love really is or how it works. In Greek Mythology Zeus made man with 2 heads, 4 arms and 4 legs. Then split them up and scattered them all over the world hoping that mankind would one day find their better half.

"Sorry Zeus, but your an Asshole" This is because the chance of that happening is 1/10000000 chance with all the people we have in the world today.

So this is my opinion:

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WHAT IS LOVE ?
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Love is when you find that one person you feel whole and complete with. When you know that you get along with that person you can talk too or share anything with.
Someone who you can rely on, cherish and be there for.
Someone who you can trust, hold close and work through any problem or challenge with.
Someone who makes you feel all funny inside.
The compassion and holiness you have for one another can't be explained. Because by explaining it means that the love you share isnt really whole.

If you are in a relationship and it is one sided, where they are belittling you, blaming you for everything, not willing to open up, even though they want you to open up and puts you down and occasionally opens up from time to time.
This is known as a one sided relationship and a toxic one at that. And no one is happy. So do yourself a favor and END IT PEACEFULLY!

They say you never really know what you lost, until you have lost it. But the truth is, you never know what you have until you share it.

Love is something unique and should be handled with care, compassion, sincerity and shouldn't be explained.

The difference between Love and True Love is, Love is explainable where True Love is not.
Most of us have only dreamed of finding our other half, where those of us in love have a somewhat stable relationship or a good one that is explainable because you make it work.

- If your partner threatens to end it, humiliates you on front of his friends, make shit up to make you worry, this isnt a healthy relationship, but an abusive one.

- If someone puts you down 24/7 and only opens up when they feel like it, regardless of the day they are having, this is known as a toxic relationship.

- If you are in a relationship where jealousy is a thing and you can't talk or befriend another Girl/Boy/Woman/Man, then this is a Controlled, Abusive a d Toxic Relationship.

- If you are in a relationship where they love you for you, talk to you, open up to you, cherish you, has never lied to you, gave you a chance or even a second chance to fix what y'all had, plus much much more, this is a relationship of Love.

- If you have standards based on Race, Origin, Skin Color or Personality this is just a Preference that most of us have (like me), and it makes it harder to find your better half, but also is harder to find someone to spend the rest of your life with. But if you find them, and they make you happy as you do them, then regardless of you have a preference or not. This is another type of love.

We are all different in our own ways, we are who we are and if someone wants you to change that, then move on and find another.

LOVE is miraculous and unique and no one deserves to be mistreated, no one deserves to be set up for false charges and no one deserves to be mislead into thinking they have a chance when they do not.

So for all the men and women reading this. If you really want to find Love or even your True Love. Then go find it, and stop being so dam picky.
Find someone who makes you feel good, who loves you for you and if you have a preference, that's cool. But as long as they can give you a chance, don't ruin it, chase it. Do right by each other.
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I hope you all find what your looking for. And I hope this passage helped some of you.
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Go Find your Lover, Be Happy, Happy Holidays!
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