Its always better to be real. Don't know if it's a curse or gift, for most part, one look and I get to see inside out of a person.Discerning the intrinsic nature of someone with a mask, has therefore, never been a problem. What I do to find a lothsome, however, is their belief that I won't able to see through, which challenges my intellect... many a time we do listen to a web of lies or absolute bunkum fully aware they are so... not because we didn't know; it was more likely that we didn't want to hurt them.. the problem here is that unless it's stopped at some point, they will continue to engage us with more and more horseshit and we become the unwitting caste in their play..I refuse to keep up with this charade.. rather i be spoken boldly, to the face, without some deviant nefarious intent... life's so much more lighter that way! what your mind and heart says now? you ask ur own heart...now it will talk to u...Have a wonderful Wednesday with lots of love and happiness!!!