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All because we looked, now we wished we hadn't.
Our world is full of so many unknown things and when it shows itself it appears alien to us.
The unknown is known for that very reason, "the unknown" and "the unseen" which makes it even more exciting and scary at the same time.
But seeing something that can't be unseen can be mentally challenging to a child.
Walking in on your parents doing natural stuff as a child can be both disturbing and stimulating which can cause an open door to unknown behavior behind closed doors leading into some very unhealthy and unknown habits.
These unhealthy habits and unpredictable behavior can lead them into becoming a child sex predator.
These unanswered questions are left in that child's mind when we don't address what they just saw and why?
That one conversation we as parents fail to have with our children.
Children learn about sex by what goes on at home, on television, on their cellphones, at school and everywhere else it can be taught.
But the one place where this talk should be happening is at home.
For some reason this conversation between parent and child doesn't really happen.
Young girls' pregnancy with boys' denials has been going on for generations upon generations with change nowhere in sight all because of this embarrassing adult versus child conversation.
The unknown conversation. That "you'll find out - like I did" conversation.
Rape from within the home is where it starts with parents to siblings.
What is a child supposed to do?
The truth about sex has never been properly addressed in our home or never - which has led to this unhealthy sexual world as a whole.
Is it too late? Yes and no.
Yes, because everyone loves sex and refuses to talk about the down sides of it and yes, there are downsides and unhealthy habits formed because of them.
No, because when you share the real facts about sex this allows them the ability to choose wisely how to handle their own bodies and how to protect themselves from sexual abuse and to keep them from becoming a predator themselves.
Having this conversation now is way too late for most but, let's bring it up again and this time let's be real about our answers.
Lets not just play it off like your child didn't just see the most horrible thing ever.
It's time to have that talk!
© V's Says
Our world is full of so many unknown things and when it shows itself it appears alien to us.
The unknown is known for that very reason, "the unknown" and "the unseen" which makes it even more exciting and scary at the same time.
But seeing something that can't be unseen can be mentally challenging to a child.
Walking in on your parents doing natural stuff as a child can be both disturbing and stimulating which can cause an open door to unknown behavior behind closed doors leading into some very unhealthy and unknown habits.
These unhealthy habits and unpredictable behavior can lead them into becoming a child sex predator.
These unanswered questions are left in that child's mind when we don't address what they just saw and why?
That one conversation we as parents fail to have with our children.
Children learn about sex by what goes on at home, on television, on their cellphones, at school and everywhere else it can be taught.
But the one place where this talk should be happening is at home.
For some reason this conversation between parent and child doesn't really happen.
Young girls' pregnancy with boys' denials has been going on for generations upon generations with change nowhere in sight all because of this embarrassing adult versus child conversation.
The unknown conversation. That "you'll find out - like I did" conversation.
Rape from within the home is where it starts with parents to siblings.
What is a child supposed to do?
The truth about sex has never been properly addressed in our home or never - which has led to this unhealthy sexual world as a whole.
Is it too late? Yes and no.
Yes, because everyone loves sex and refuses to talk about the down sides of it and yes, there are downsides and unhealthy habits formed because of them.
No, because when you share the real facts about sex this allows them the ability to choose wisely how to handle their own bodies and how to protect themselves from sexual abuse and to keep them from becoming a predator themselves.
Having this conversation now is way too late for most but, let's bring it up again and this time let's be real about our answers.
Lets not just play it off like your child didn't just see the most horrible thing ever.
It's time to have that talk!
© V's Says
