HOW TO HAVE FUN AFTER YOUR HIGH SCHOOL PROM

Am certain you are on the seventh heaven right now wherever you are with that jolly smile of yours. Of course! you've got every single right to be, I mean you've just got your first big break of completing your higher education, and you've outdone yourself on your prom night/matrix dance with your best dress, heels, nails, Estee lauder makeup or any of your choice, and with your best Italian tuxedo and shoes...

Gosh! Actually the moment you have been longing for has finally knocked on your door step. Am sure everyone had the best time of their lives ever! So let's take grip on what needs to be done to maintain the fun and joys of being young whilst keeping the key of prosperity on the hanger.

First things first, "FIND SOMETHING TO DO", a festive job or whatsoever, something that will keep your mind off things whilst taking a deep meditation on what you'll want to pursue in varsity, That's very crucial. I mean you can't sit at home for the whole two months doing nothing, TV, movies, end up giving you exhaustion, and am serious about this. Knowing you have to wake up by 9 am to clean, eat, watch TV, chat, (for the whole 60 days), its ridiculous!

Working with different people daily will be of help because of the bond and interaction you have with them (probably with customers), you always learn something there. You know why? Because you dealing with different people from different backgrounds, societies, religions, culture, and personalities of course.

Working after completing high school doesn't necessarily mean you have to specifically seek jobs which will pay you. NO! That's too lame, not in a bad way though, you can do it if ever you feel squashed in corner of finances you get what I mean am sure.

Being a volunteer isn't a bad thing, we see it like that because we have passion for money. Be a volunteer in a company which will give give you experience foundation of what you would to study in varsity. A company which will build your fundamental experience of knowledge, art, mind and spirit.

If you would like to be social worker, apply at private organizations or something, where you would get exactly what you are looking for. Who knows what and when? You might be sponsored by them in that varsity or college you will select to enroll in, after all, things happen.

Above everything else, have time to find yourself. How do you do that? It's simple, just gather your "ME, MYSELF AND I". Searching and finding yourself means you deeply dig your inner soul, spirit, mind, heart to be able to see who you really are, because I assure you, you can never be fit for the world if you aren't certain about what you want, and where you want to be, NEVER!

Finding yourself includes loving yourself with all that you can, knowing your destiny, not avoiding success, not being afraid to say "I HAVE MORE THAN ENOUGH SKILL TO ATTAIN THIS... "! Don't you ever doubt your skill, ability and your mind, never, ever! Is the volume low or should I raise it higher and higher? "NEVER EVER DOUBT YOURSELF".

Know strengths and weaknesses, and try to fix up your weaknesses, finding yourself doesn't mean you have to search and find yourself in a single day. What! No! That's a never on its own, this thing takes time, it could be a week, a month or two. Don't ever rush into conclusion of who you are, take time to even discover why you are what you are, when you turned up like that, how you became what you are today, and then focus on where you want to be, don't dwell on things you can't change!

One last item, learn to be happy, love to be happy, surround yourself with people who make you happy, smile, who make you love life, and give you more reasons to live. You are still young, very young, so why not explore the world? What stills you from doing that? If you want to see the waterfall, go to wherever it is, know places, go to Maguga, Badplass, Barberton,Sandton, Cape town, Mauritius, Jamaica, Miami, Bahamas, Paris, Las Vegas, Texas, England, you know what am talking about?

"EXPLORE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS, IT'S YOUR TIME, NOT HERS, NOT HIS, NOT THEM BUT YOUR TIME!!!

SO GO GET WHAT'S YOURS, REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN THOUGH!!!

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