Have you ever felt that spark when seeing someone attractive or looking good.
I have felt it many times, I guess all of you out there would have that same experience.
we often look upon famous people only few look upon ordinary people.

We all are ready to be like them the way they dress, the way they walk, the way they speak, education they have got, things they buy, gadgets they buy, vehicles that they travel in.... all is an exemplary list

But how often have you taken something from them -their values, experience,how they live...

They might be in luxury and style but have you seen them in happiness or have you ever seen how they struggle, how they look on to others, have you ever thought how far they think.

If we did we could have been satisfied with what we have, but no people like us sit and struggle for what we don't have, we try to get that in our hands by wasting time and energy. we ask people for help to become like them.
In this journey we might have asked our parents to get this and that
We might have left our loved ones behind in a rush to reach our goal
We might have spent day and night without a sleep
We might have missed all the important days in our life.
We might have missed those cheers and laughter that we would be getting from our loved ones
We might have left behind the voices that our loved ones wanted to say to us
We might have left our lovely days of youth just for that achievement

Think about it this is the same thing that all those we admire have done, they all would have the same thing to say
Please don't look forward always at times look back to where you came from and hold their hands and be with them more often and share them the feelings and sorrow that you had and give them a ear to what they have to say....
once in a lifetime be with them and be mute, let them say whatever they wish to say let it be complaints sorrow, compliment or suggestion
If not you will never have people to say anything to you just to talk some rubbish

All of you might think it's just piece of joke but out of the cheers and praises we hear somewhere in our hearts we might have felt that our loved ones to be there to see all this praises
To be satisfied with what you are, but only few get those, we might be one of them
so don't let your heart take away only with your ambitions , while you go forward hold their hands close and let them walk with you in your struggles sorrow and happiness
and let not a word of thorns pull you down.

This may also concern for all the parents who alone take care of kids by working hard day and night.
your hardworking is remembered by everyone but that might turn yourself into moneybag, who is a person without feelings and a heart and who don't want to stay with his or her family.
Remember you have only one. life ahead if you are not able to get happiness in your family then wherever you go you won't be worth it.

Make choices worthy and let not your heart sink when people say something about you
because you alone are yours

© Michelle maria