Cruelty comes at an early age when we take on false beliefs leading us to be cruel towards others or when others are cruel to us. It's almost as if it's a natural reaction which in turn leads others to be cruel as well. It's a sad truth that we all face at some point in our lives. At an early age i received a message telling me to that I'm not good enough due to the fact that everything I did my mom always complained about. It seemed as if nothing was ever good enough for her. This message is still carried with me into my adulthood. The only difference today is that when I receive this message today I no longer react in a cruel way towards others. This can all be changed with some hard work at hand. You just have to realize that the person being cruel to you in that moment is still living in that message they received at some point in time and they don't realize that message or false belief isn't true. I changed my message from a false belief or shadow message into a true statement or golden message telling myself "I am enough". Once you change your belief by telling your self the opposite of whatever your belief may be then you no longer feel the need to be cruel in return. Instead you say a quick prayer for them and recognize the truth that they don't realize the harm they could be causing you for we never know what that person may also be going through. I was able to do this by looking in the mirror everyday and saying "I am enough" three times a day. Eventually you begin believing the truth. It has changed my life for the better so I challenge everyone to change things up so you to can live a much happier life.
© Brandi N. Willard