Why is it everytime we get healed after bein broken , we fall for some other person and is this an ongoing process or will it stop oneday on to a last person who wont leave no matter what's the problem ....

I often think about this cause this is my healing stage, im bein healed by myself in the presence of god and the last time when i was in the same stage , when life was at flow , i again fell for someone , it worked for some years and then again a separation . I really dont understand this process like is it that the universe wants to teach something which i didnt...