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Relationship arguments- 23 does and don't does
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**12 Don’t compare:
Comparisons hurt, and you’d know that if your partner ever compared you to someone else like their ex in the middle of a fight.
**13 Don’t inflict(cause) pain:
Don’t say things that could emotionally hurt your partner, or don't discourage them.
**14 Don’t manage your partner and confuse them with false information or false stories just to trick them into accepting what you have to say. They’ll realize it at some point in time, and it’ll only make them lose their trust in you.
**15 Don’t hear and tell:
If someone in your family involves your partner of something, don’t use an argument to reveal it all like they were always right. “My mom/dad was right about you… I don’t know what I ever saw in you!” may make you feel forgiven for a few seconds, but it’ll leave your partner feeling hurt and angry, and they may just end up giving you the silent treatment.
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**12 Don’t compare:
Comparisons hurt, and you’d know that if your partner ever compared you to someone else like their ex in the middle of a fight.
**13 Don’t inflict(cause) pain:
Don’t say things that could emotionally hurt your partner, or don't discourage them.
**14 Don’t manage your partner and confuse them with false information or false stories just to trick them into accepting what you have to say. They’ll realize it at some point in time, and it’ll only make them lose their trust in you.
**15 Don’t hear and tell:
If someone in your family involves your partner of something, don’t use an argument to reveal it all like they were always right. “My mom/dad was right about you… I don’t know what I ever saw in you!” may make you feel forgiven for a few seconds, but it’ll leave your partner feeling hurt and angry, and they may just end up giving you the silent treatment.
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