you never pay her attention
asking how was her day. doesn't because your to busy tied up with yourself. wife is lonely. you don't care because you have other things to interest you. wife is lonely. you doesn't care care because yall live together. wife becomes horny. why would you care because you took her virginity.
WORD OF ADVICE TO MEN. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR WIFE OR SHE WILL GO SOMEWHERE ELSE