Dear Reader,
There are many, like me and you, who are in search of success. We really need to get success. Success is not our hobby, as it is dire need. If we don't succeed, we will be really in trouble. Because we have struggled a lot and now we are at the verge of the end where one more failure and finish. Suppose, we have such circumstances around us. Every one is looking at us with a kind of trust and hope that we will help them, support them, and take them out of their troubles. Can you guess, inspite of such a painful situation, why only a few gets the success while the rest of us just complain the fate and luck for failure? Actually, we can't blame anyone for this. So many of us would have experienced the failures and also blamed the others for the same. Now it's time to look at us closely to find the real reason and solution of this problem. First of all we should be honest with us. We must ask ourselves: Do I really want to get success? Do I keenly need to be successful? if I am honestly looking for success, I will be happy only after getting success. But what happens with me is, I am happy many times in a very unimportant pleasure. if I want to taste the happiness of being successful, I will have to stop being blinded by unimportant pleasures and feelings. At one side, I am enjoying the pleasures of laziness, eating, sleeping, talking, chatting, and doing short term high pleasure giving activities like playing video games or watching videos or tv for more time without considering that these activities are consuming my time and energy. Eating chocolate is the symbol of entertainment. It's ok to eat chocolates but just imagine, if someone takes only chocolates in breakfast, lunch and dinner, what would happen? In the same way, we have only one goal and that is entertainment of our senses, what would happen? It would be the disastrous for our health and life. We must understand that running after only pleasure never gives us the chance to prepare ourselves for the Development of our own work. When there is no perfect preparation, presentation and performance, there is no success. Success comes when we give high quality performance. We give high quality performance, when we do high quality preparations. We do high quality preparations, when we have high quality discipline. We can maintain high quality discipline when we are ready not to run after unimportant pleasures of eating, sleeping, and other entertaining things. This does not mean that we should not eat. Eating for need is different thing and eating for greed is different. The rule applies to all other pleasures. If you are sleeping to rest, you will get up as soon as you get rest. While if you are sleeping to enjoy sleep, you will keep sleeping in bed, however you have no requirement of sleep. So the persons who are really in the search of the feeling of being successful, never feel satisfied or pleasure in unimportant pleasures. we will have to forget the word,' Happiness ' to feel the happiness that comes after getting success. We can't lose ourselves in petty pleasures of senses. We can't be happy with the pleasures of entertaining things and emotions. Until we get the real feeling being successful, we will have to forget happiness. We will do all the routines, physical duties as they are essential. But we can not trap ourselves in the web of entertaining things always. Otherwise these activities will not allow us to maintain discipline, without discipline we will not be able to prepare properly, without proper preparation, there will be no chance to perform perfectly and without perfect performance, how can we get success? Without getting success, how can we taste the feeling of being successful? So forget happiness, forget pleasures, train yourself, tolerate the pain, have a great patience and passion. Remember, if you follow this way, you are guaranteed to succeed. Think if you like,
jai siyaram, Pranam
© hitesh kanubhai shukla