Nowadays it's so hilarious to see just your surroundings. From my perspective, just unimaginable.

My message to brothers stop simping on girls.

You guys get into their Instagram, Facebook and any other social media platform and just beg them for their attention. It's laughable, truely it is. Why there is so much need, better to work on yourself and do something to make your parents proud. I don't have Instagram, I have facebook account but haven't opened it for years. Yeah, I know go ahead and say I am a boomer. The thing is, if anyone has this opinion about me, I simply don't care. For my lifestyle that's a distraction. I would prefer to go out work my ass off, meet with friends in real life. If I want to talk to female I will just go and do so, I have 2-3 female friends. I don't have many more like others because our values doesn't match. I would rather be surrounded by driven, same valued person than being a people pleaser.

My message to all the females stop overvaluing yourself.

I know I will get hate. Here's the question, you get a hundred dms and all begging to be your boyfriend but step back and think how many will actually go through whole process and marry you? Let me tell you all the guys you see online none of them will. Oh but marriage isn't the only thing. Then why are you dating? To play with heart? The reason being this and always the fear of false accusations most of the good guys will be hesitant to date. You don't do so doesn't mean others don't. It happens to male more than you can think. I got falsely accused two times already by some stranger and society always takes side of girls. Luckily one time I had my mom to defend. The other time it was parents of the girl. Yeah sounds unbelievable but they slapped her right across the face when they got to hear to accusations she was throwing around on my name. Not everyone is as lucky as me, few of my friends became victim of it and had to lower their head even when it was not their fault.

My views can be said traditional but, I don't care. I know if a male like me exists then a female with same value exists. In a relationship a female hides so much more than a man. 80-90% of the time female walks away from a man's life because he is having hard time. To me that's great, I just got saved from a knife cutting down my whole life.

I am emotional, yes I agree. I want to be with my girl because I love her. If something happens which is seriously not okay in relationship I will walk away without a seconds hesitation. It can break me but I will not stay in relationship.

Boys and men stop lowering your own value and females stop overvaluing yourself. My reason is both case will only bring down society. A man must do his job so does females. It's a man's responsibility to keep her woman happy so is the females responsibility towards her man.

In this day and age of casual dating and hookup. Light is bleak, but not totally gone. Have realistic expectations, not some Instagram models. Love yourself first because of you won't do no other will. Learn to accept flaws, work on them to make yourself better. Never shy away from hard gruelling work. Never be tempted by distraction.

I know I look average maybe a bit below average so what? That's not the thing I can control. What I can control is what I can build.

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