THE FRIENDSHIP QUESTION.

Ghosting anyone is my hubby, not a concious one, it's not deliberate, I am just someone who has developed the art of fudging on alone.

Nothing about me depends do or die on anyone else.

I simply refuse to nurture the possibility.

If I am hurt, ghosting the culprit becomes like breathing. Becuase I go out of my way not to deliberately hurt anyone.

So someone asked me about my friendships; and how I deal with friends who throws me under the Bus and expose information that I share with them In confidence.

I responded that "every supposed confidential information that I share with anyone Is information that may be painful to hear that it got out; but beleive me when I say that I somehow knew it can get out and may get out, so I am practically braced for the day It does, that's why I could share It In the first place".

I may be pained that It did get out, but I am braced that It can, because I shared it with a human being, feeble at that, but a human still.

No matter how close, deep and friendly we are; the Information about me that I don't want to get out at all, that one, It stays inside of me and It will go to the...