if anyone suffers in the name of spiritual or religious rules, is humiliated or punished, it is a resullt of manipulation and control. it is a spiritual misuse.
in the Bible, God says Come directly to me. not to people who claim to represent me.
in Quran, Allah says Don't take anyone with you, if you go to worship God.
Dont become a victim of manipulators who claim to be the representatives of God.